Anyone who believes they can just
manifest
themselves a better life is seriously tapped in the heed. Sure, have a vision of what you would love your life to be, but at some point you've got to actually put a bit of
bleeping effort. Does he think thing just happen to people because they deserve it? No, things happen because people MAKE IT HAPPEN! My mum worked hard her whole adult life to buy a wee starter home back in the 80's in that place North London. Couple years ago she sold it for just shy of Β£1m and bought herself a five bed house (three bathroom, utility room, massive kitchen with a walk in pantry and front and back garden). Couple of years ago my husband suggested relocating to Oz. Took a bit of convincing but eventually he won me over and we spent a year preparing, moving jobs, packing up the house, securing visas, getting the kiddo enrolled in school over here, organising movers etc etc and now we're here. This is what hard work will get you. Hard work that he's just not willing up put in.