Yeah, out of my mum and my uncle, it's already a foregone conclusion that my grandparents will be moving in with my mum in advanced old age, because she's the daughter.
I have one parent left and he has treated me like utter s**t my entire life, so I certainly will not be looking after him. Having kids doesn't guarantee anything.I’m the same, but ultimately it reminds me that regardless of you have kids who to say they’ll be around or want to look after you. They have no obligation to. My husband won’t be looking after his mum that’s for sure.
My MIL spent years hounding me about giving her grandkids, sometimes she was really rude about it. Now that my husbands other siblings have given her grandkids, we've been told its a good thing we don't have kids cos that means we can have them move in with us when they can no longer cope in the house alone.Yeah, out of my mum and my uncle, it's already a foregone conclusion that my grandparents will be moving in with my mum in advanced old age, because she's the daughter.
I always say that the money I save by not having kids I can save and use to pay people to look after me when the time comes.I definitely won't look after my parents.
My father abandoned us when we were in elementary school so this man won't set a toe near me.
My mom already bought a retirement house to have someone full time to take care of her. She said that it would be selfish of her to force herself in our lives.
Even if she hadn't planned it there is no way that I would take care of her. My family has a terrible history with dementia. I can't imagine having to lock all the doors to prevent her from escaping or having to put stickers on everything to help her with her memory.
She tried to take care of my grandmother but she couldn't when she realised that it was a full time job. She had to choose between taking care of my grandmother or having a full time job. She decided to pay for a nurse to take care of my grandma and saved to have the same treatment when she'll retire. I'll do the same time. I'd rather have a professional to look after me.
There was a really sad story in a paper I saw shared on Facebook the other day about a grandmother of 2 who was sadly killed in a car accident, I was expecting it to be about someone 60+ but she was actually 32. I always forget people in their 30s can be grandparents because I definitely don't feel old enough to be a grandma!I'm 39 and a third school friend has just announced on Facebook that they are about to become a grandparent! I cannot comprehend this
If I get older and my husband dies before me, then I’ll sell my house and I’ll move into one of those Belong type retirement places!I don't want children. However, I have one worry. Who will look after/care for me when I'm old. I watched 24 hours in A&E and two stroke patients were found by their children and I just had a moment where I thought "tit! Who would find me?!"
I was 30 when a former school mate (also 30) became a granny. She'd had her daughter at 16 and then her 14 year old daughter had a baby.I'm 39 and a third school friend has just announced on Facebook that they are about to become a grandparent! I cannot comprehend this
People ask us why we live in a house with 4 bedrooms when there’s just the 2 of us… duck off!!!Yes Olivia
I hate that mentality. I also hate the mentality that as soon as you’re married, it’s baby time.
Or that when buy a house with your partner, you better save one of the rooms for the future baby.
I don’t know why people think they have the right to be so nosey, rude and invasive.
You know what I don't get, infertility is so common, miscarriages happen a lot and children sadly die every day. Yet people ask questions like why don't you want kids, what if your husband leaves you and say things like you're not a real woman, your life will be empty, you'll never know love and hilariously say that people without kids won't have empathy and maturity when for all they know, they're berating a woman who has had her third miscarriage of a much wanted baby four days ago! But I'm immature with no empathy…OK.Yes Olivia
I hate that mentality. I also hate the mentality that as soon as you’re married, it’s baby time.
Or that when buy a house with your partner, you better save one of the rooms for the future baby.
I don’t know why people think they have the right to be so nosey, rude and invasive.
Personally, questions like that don’t offend me, but maybe after a few years of people asking I’ll change my mind lol. Saying that, I’d never ask these questions!I can’t stand Olivia Bowen but she is 100% correct about this
Ugh yes I hate this! It’s such a pointless question. Like I’ve seen so many relationships break down because they had kids. But when someone announces their pregnancy, you would never say ‘omg what if your husband leaves you?’what if your husband leaves you
And by 'like your summary' I meant 'like it a million times' because I already loved it when it was posted.@Satisfying Click if I could like your summary post a few pages back, I would.
On the flip side, what if you had a child that needed to be cared for by you for their entire life. So many disabilities require this. What happens to them if you have a stroke....that scares me moreI don't want children. However, I have one worry. Who will look after/care for me when I'm old. I watched 24 hours in A&E and two stroke patients were found by their children and I just had a moment where I thought "tit! Who would find me?!"