There was a funny tiktok I saw the other day and it was a girl clapping with the caption "Having your kids young so you can enjoy your 40s" and then transitions to her dancing where it says "Being childfree, so you can enjoy your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s ...."
The amount of bitter comments ("Have fun dying alone"), unrealistic comments ("Having kids doesn't even change your lifestyle") and just plain ridiculous ones ("Oh sure, don't have kids just so I can sit around and drink all day #childree") was insane. With threads like this, which even include very honest and non judgemental parents, you do sort of forget that there are still so many people who validate the existence of threads like this one.