Was at a wedding the other week, well say at a wedding, I was bridesmaid to my best friend along with the rest of our friendship group - two of which have kids
It was in a different city so we all had to troop up the day before and stay over, with our partners and those with the kids brought them too.
So the night before when us bridesmaids were getting our hair curly blown to be pin curled, the two maids with kids brought their kids with them to the bridal suite? Even though their partners were also there and could have taken the kids, so that the people involved in the actual wedding could have had a relaxing evening? Is this standard behaviour that the women are just meant to have the kids? Even when the men were just sitting in the bar drinking?
My fiance actually pulled one of the dads up and was like "errr, why haven't you got the kid so that the girls can all relax and enjoy themselves?" and he was like "i can't be arsed with her tonight, and it's her mum's job"
The bride was raging that things in her suite were getting jumped on, knocked over, broken, but she was far too nice to say anything to get rid of the kids.
The next day at the actual wedding as well, the man who said he couldn't be arsed with his own daughter, left his GF to do EVERYTHING for the child, even though she was bridesmaid. She had to sit things like photos, socialising etc out because the dad is a head
It was in a different city so we all had to troop up the day before and stay over, with our partners and those with the kids brought them too.
So the night before when us bridesmaids were getting our hair curly blown to be pin curled, the two maids with kids brought their kids with them to the bridal suite? Even though their partners were also there and could have taken the kids, so that the people involved in the actual wedding could have had a relaxing evening? Is this standard behaviour that the women are just meant to have the kids? Even when the men were just sitting in the bar drinking?
My fiance actually pulled one of the dads up and was like "errr, why haven't you got the kid so that the girls can all relax and enjoy themselves?" and he was like "i can't be arsed with her tonight, and it's her mum's job"
The bride was raging that things in her suite were getting jumped on, knocked over, broken, but she was far too nice to say anything to get rid of the kids.
The next day at the actual wedding as well, the man who said he couldn't be arsed with his own daughter, left his GF to do EVERYTHING for the child, even though she was bridesmaid. She had to sit things like photos, socialising etc out because the dad is a head