Absolutely. And I don't hate children. I'm just not maternal and never have been. You can't just go no ta when you've had enough (well you can but...). I'm told "oh but you're so good with kids"....yeah for 20 minutes tops then I'm exhaustedexactly, it also immediately sets you up to feel “wrong”. telling someone that they will feel a complete earth shattering love when their baby moves etc and then they just….. don’t immediately sets the mindset that you must feel immediate connection to your baby and if you don’t then there’s something wrong.
plus, like you say, what do we do when we don’t magically change their minds? what’s the return policy here?!
having a child is a decision, an act, that can never be undone. the idea that it should be treated as a fun experiment to see how you’ll feel when it happens is ridiculous and frankly dangerous to the actual tiny human at the centre of it.
if i were him i think i would have gotten in the car, alone, and driven myself home. she didn’t offer any help while he did all the running around and then decided to tease him on the way home? nope.
also her loudly telling the baby how good she’s being and how she’s the best child isn’t exactly going to help the toddler, who can probably hear that.
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I love doing some of the xmassy things with my friends kids (i.e Santa's grotto) just for the magic side and the belief but..I also like going home after and cracking out the baileys on my own
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