Just popping on to say how much I agree with all your comments here.
Mrs T and I haven’t had lots of “why haven’t you had..” comments, because my side are generally child-free anyway and her side think lesbians can’t have children (long story and very very sad).
However, this year I have noticed that we have been treated as though we are incapable and much younger than our just over 40 years because we obviously don’t have the maturity required to choose to have children (I don’t know if I am expressing myself correctly here). Her parents admonished us for saying we were going to buy a slightly bigger car (needed for Mrs T’s commute), when her younger brother who earns far less (but has 2 kids) is fine to have 2 massive SUVs. Our neighbours either tell us off for things or imply we need help in the house when the younger ones ( with kids) are left alone.
Baffling.
Mrs T and I haven’t had lots of “why haven’t you had..” comments, because my side are generally child-free anyway and her side think lesbians can’t have children (long story and very very sad).
However, this year I have noticed that we have been treated as though we are incapable and much younger than our just over 40 years because we obviously don’t have the maturity required to choose to have children (I don’t know if I am expressing myself correctly here). Her parents admonished us for saying we were going to buy a slightly bigger car (needed for Mrs T’s commute), when her younger brother who earns far less (but has 2 kids) is fine to have 2 massive SUVs. Our neighbours either tell us off for things or imply we need help in the house when the younger ones ( with kids) are left alone.
Baffling.