I’m taking by her silence she’s decided to take him. If I find who she’s flying with I will absolutely report her. Disgusting
If she’s no longer with Matt she’ll be able to claim 85% of her nursery fees back through UC plus she might qualify for more benefits like housing so she’s likely got far more expendable income now than she did when she was with Matt.I think she must be in loads of debt. She said ages ago that nearly all of her wage is gone after paying childcare. Her rent on that house in Bromley must be so expensive plus all these holidays and “me time” she keeps having! Matt can’t be paying that much child maintenance.
Surely she would earn too much to claim anything? She must be on quite a lot as a PR manager who whatever she does.. if she can claim benefits the system is even worse than I thought!If she’s no longer with Matt she’ll be able to claim 85% of her nursery fees back through UC plus she might qualify for more benefits like housing so she’s likely got far more expendable income now than she did when she was with Matt.
She lives in quite an expensive area and it’s postcode dependent. Even women on 40k can still claim in London and I don’t think she’ll be on over that amount at the moment.Surely she would earn too much to claim anything? She must be on quite a lot as a PR manager who whatever she does.. if she can claim benefits the system is even worse than I thought!
She makes out she’s so intelligent but she has no common sense/general knowledge at all. I knew about that rule before I had my child. I have a different surname to her so I would make sure I double checked all the rules etc before I travelled alone with her.It baffles me she makes a big deal out of absolutely everything!
her stories today saying she had no clue about bringing a birth certificate to airport as she has a different second name to son… I thought this was pretty common knowledge?!
And of course there’s a drama about how she felt being questioned about it blah blah
she said it like she thought having and child and sending them to childcare would cost zero. You also know she would be the first person moaning about how little childcare workers are paid if it wasn’t her having to pay the bill.'I'm living right on the edge' complaining about nursery fees and tagging them saying how bleeping awful they are! Very professional. And right on the edge financially yet has been in London this wknd and had 3 holidays -at least - in the last 3 months?
She's utterly thick, I cannot stand her! Can't believe I used to like her and infact offer her sympathy and advice when she was struggling in early motherhood as I was months ahead of her and saw her suffering... now she's offering out advice like some guru and seems to have zero common sense and incredibly self involved. I, I, I, me me me. Im triggered, im traumatised. Oh duck off, we all are probably and we all get up and continue the best we can! And she 'never knew about childcare expense before she had a child?' Is she serious?
I agree with you totally, but (if she's even telling the truth) if they didn't contact her or his dad about a head injury I'd be questioning that. Like you say kids always injure themselves in various ways, but as a parent if my kid had a big lump on their head I'd at least want to know so I can decided whether to get them checked out or not. Hope this makes sense.Oh so now she gave notice at her son’s nursery and is slating them again… apparently he ran into a wall and she doesn’t believe it. They probably don’t wanna deal with her self entitled attitude. He’s a kid, kids constantly fall over and are accident prone… but no of course she’s gonna blame everyone else around her.