Sorry, I wasn’t clear - she was very keen for baby number 2 and he was absolutely against it. It was very hard.
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Oh really? Who said he was against it? I thought that she had pcos etc issues and also she had put stuff up complaining about nursery costs and not Being able to afford another kid. She also had birth trauma I think too so it’s not a decision a couple would take lightly. If it is the case that he was dead set against it then he probably doing it for her own good if she’s not well enough to go through it again. I have to say I do like her but there is a lot of attention seeking stories. If you don’t want followers to speculate then don’t be active on socials until you’ve sorted yourself out? As I said before I don’t think it would be DV at all. I think he is still living there as he also had a story up last week getting in to an ice bath in their garden and he Said “hi buddy” or something like that to the kid as he opened the door to the house
I hope they will be ok though. Parenthood is never easy! She seems like a nice person I hope she has some good friends and family around her---
-he’s following her on Instagram but she has unfollowed him
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He’s got an older kid with someone else. Can see it on his tagged pics. Maybe it’s common knowledge but I didn’t know about it. Says #fatheranddaughter
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I think he has two other kids, a boy and a girl other than Leo. She's unfollowed him?! Can't be a good signOh really? Who said he was against it? I thought that she had pcos etc issues and also she had put stuff up complaining about nursery costs and not Being able to afford another kid. She also had birth trauma I think too so it’s not a decision a couple would take lightly. If it is the case that he was dead set against it then he probably doing it for her own good if she’s not well enough to go through it again. I have to say I do like her but there is a lot of attention seeking stories. If you don’t want followers to speculate then don’t be active on socials until you’ve sorted yourself out? As I said before I don’t think it would be DV at all. I think he is still living there as he also had a story up last week getting in to an ice bath in their garden and he Said “hi buddy” or something like that to the kid as he opened the door to the house
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-he’s following her on Instagram but she has unfollowed him
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He’s got an older kid with someone else. Can see it on his tagged pics. Maybe it’s common knowledge but I didn’t know about it. Says #fatheranddaughter
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So it’s understandable he’s got grown up kids plus Leo he doesn’t want anymore. I think that’s fair enough. Maybe that’s why they broke up.
Has she address her and Matt? Has it been confirmed or has she just ignored it and hoped it’d go away lol
I don’t think so? Also it’s just constant moaning from her on every story now. She’s actually so negative constantly. I’m sick of seeing her complaining I think I’ll have to unfollow
I feel bad for her kid. She’s always complaining about him. Like I understand there’s an element of “keeping it real” for her followers as mothers BUT she’s making it look like she despises him at times.
I know! And now she’s moaning she can’t have another one. Like the one you actually have!
She spends no time with him. He’s in nursery 5 days a week and she’s out at least 1 day/night a weekend. And now she’s on about a solo retreat, be a mum and get over yourself ffs.
Even the whole “I’m working out” to him and him climbing on to her back and her Rolling her eyes as usual. It’s just not nice. I’d feel awful putting that online out there. She seems to hate being a mother. She’s clearly mentally unwell, I hope the child’s father steps up and spends Quality time with him. He’s a lovely little boy and like All toddlers needs love and meaningful playtime with his parent.
I think she more or less did last night by saying she’s doing it alone
I might feel for her a bit if she didn’t say it with a crying selfie
Also everytime she moans about his sleep, I think wow that sleep consultant was well worth the money wasn’t it haha.
I do at times, due to have a little boy same age as hers and I know it’s bloody exhausting at times but there’s not a day really where she doesn’t have something to moan about
Same boat here
As difficult as it is at times the love and fun Always outweighs the hard parts. It’s horrible letting all her followers know so many private details and thoughts About her son.Her partner or ex partner never posts their son on socials really. I’m sure he probably spends time with him but you don’t see him complaining about his child/his health/sleep etc. he’s actually a better role model than her when it comes to positivity on social media
Id love to know what happened between them as it wasn’t long ago they were madly deeply in love and not long got engaged
Me too! She always went on about how their relationship was so healthy and different from her previous.. wonder what changed that! It’ll probably come out eventually in a caption to a crying selfie.
I used to really like her but i think she has some very deep seated issues surrounding her son. I have 2 toddlers and 2 older children (but still living at home) and the toddlers really are hard work but they’re so much fun and when it gets hard I have to remind myself that they’re all I ever wanted and I will absolutely miss this when it’s over as I’m not having anymore!
I feel as though her PND wasn’t dealt with properly and also sounds like her and Matt have broken up recently which will be a big change for all of them. Perhaps exacerbating Leo’s behaviour which won’t improve their relationship. We’re lead to believe that parent/child relationships are relatively easy because the love there is unconditional but I don’t always think that’s the case and sometimes those relationships require a lot of work! I hope she sorts it out. It’s glaringly obvious that she isn’t fond of him.
I feel as though her PND wasn’t dealt with properly and also sounds like her and Matt have broken up recently which will be a big change for all of them. Perhaps exacerbating Leo’s behaviour which won’t improve their relationship. We’re lead to believe that parent/child relationships are relatively easy because the love there is unconditional but I don’t always think that’s the case and sometimes those relationships require a lot of work! I hope she sorts it out. It’s glaringly obvious that she isn’t fond of him.
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I completely agree! I doubt it was cheap, I just couldn’t spend all that money on myself when I could spend it on my child or an experience together. a few months ago she was saying her whole pay went on childcare but never seems to stop spending.She just has such an elevated sense of self importance- it’s like whatever she has gone through has pushed her in the opposite direction and she’s extremely selfish, puts herself first above her child always and he’s like a burden. I never understand this whole attitude of having kids and you can still be yourself - yeah like going out for the day shopping, getting a haircut etc but to prioritise and pay for a solo retreat to have days away from your child is just so self indulgent to me. You hang that all up and put it on hold until your child grows up? It’s the sacrifice you make for having a child? I would love to go back to the 5* resort me and my hubby went on 12 years ago but with 3 kids that won’t happen now until they are grown up but I’m ok with it cause I have kids and prioritise them? Don’t know why she hasn’t instead just booked a few days away her and Leo, just somewhere in the uk to go visiting different places and having fun together? Eurgh she infuriates me. It’s like nobody else has had kids who don’t sleep or are single parents, on the top of all this she gets tit loads for free because she’s an ‘ influencer’ so she needs to just shut up
Andshe was also talking about a trip to Bali for herself. She’d want to cop the duck on