People need to remember that no contraception is 100% effective either. Not like that has anything to do with this but people are going a bit OT
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So well said, I understand Charlotte has her flaws (doesn't everyone) but I truly believe her child will be loved unconditionally which is a privilege many children sadly don't have. I hope she finds love within herself and wish her a safe pregnancy
I agree. If my male partner tells me he’s wearing a condom I wouldn’t just come off the pill, if I didn’t want a child with that person I would want as much protection as possible.
I really don’t think Charlotte has somehow tricked him into having a baby because she’s so desperate to be a mother, she’s had plenty of boyfriends in the past and she has wanted kids since she was on GS and she’s never done it before, why would she do it to him.
Also let’s not pretend men never walk out on their pregnant partner/children, if he really didn’t want the child, he wouldn’t be there would he. He’s had choices all the way along.
I’m interested to see what kind of mum she will be, I’m sure her thread will get busier now than it has been.
I think her caption is a bit odd, it’s very “me, myself and I”, “I’m have a baby” and his name just added in brackets.
ETA - but I don’t have kids so don’t know if that’s how the majority of women feel
ETA - but I don’t have kids so don’t know if that’s how the majority of women feel
There is a lot of assumption that its a mistake or she has tricked him.... It might have been planned by both of them.
She seems happy and sort of content/settled with him. Her parents seemed so pleased for her too, not at all like they were apprehensive etc.... even her Dad was over the moon saying how happy she seems lately as well. No Dad would say that unless he meant it.
She seems happy and sort of content/settled with him. Her parents seemed so pleased for her too, not at all like they were apprehensive etc.... even her Dad was over the moon saying how happy she seems lately as well. No Dad would say that unless he meant it.
Awwww I’m actually buzzing for her. About the timing, an example my friend and her bloke recently got pregnant, it was planned, they’ve been together 4 years and treats her like absolute shite on his shoe and has recently kicked her out - on and off. Another friend accidentally fell pregnant within the same time frame and they’re happily still together married with 3 other kiddies. Time means nothing sometimes.
The reason I am not buzzing for her is because every single boyfriend has been 'the one' and 'different to everyone else', so what makes her think Jake is any different. Her judgement seems off. I have no judgement for people that have kids soon into a relationship, but I think for someone that thinks every single boyfriend is the absolute one to have a child so quick, this is a little hasty.
totally get what you’re saying but how do we know this was even planned? If it wasn’t and after what she been through I doubt anyone in her shoes would want an abortion, shes getting older now, finically stable, relationship seems to be going okay, Jake seems happy she’s pregnant.
I got pregnant twice whilst on the pill. Hadn't missed it, wasn't sick etc. It just didn't work!
We switched to condoms after the second time
We switched to condoms after the second time
Good for her, and best of all she can’t get her face injected.
I just think things are very different than they used to be, it’s not uncommon for a child to be bought up in a broken home now, I’m not saying it’s less damaging but I know single women who have bought their children up amazingly well without the support of the fathers.
I think as long as you have enough love for that child and can support it financially then it doesn’t matter if the man turns out to be an hole. Most of them do anyway.
I think as long as you have enough love for that child and can support it financially then it doesn’t matter if the man turns out to be an hole. Most of them do anyway.
She did say final scan, but I assumed she meant ‘final one before her management oks her to tell people the news’. Everything gets signed off doesn’t it?
Oh I'm not sure. She seemed really toned and slim.... and then Terrys pics show her with quite a round bump. I don't think she has mentioned how far along she is though.
That happened to me we were together 19 years (got preg by accident at 40) apparently i was trapping him
and we split, probably the best decision we ever made, hes a present parent now and we are all happierI didn't think this was a rave thread, but all I keep reading is how everyone's happy for her and how good of a mum she will be?
normal business will resume in a few hours 
I read that she lost an ovary and her Fallopian tube after her Eptopic pregnancy, no wonder she’s so over the moon. She genuinely must’ve believed it would never happen for her. There’s lots of guys around her age that want a baby, I’m sure they had the discussion and she got pregnant. A lot of my friends were the same, the length of time didn’t count for much, more financial stability and wanting a baby at a certain age..each to their own.
Tbh I don't think she cared who gave her a baby. As long as someone did. Which I can understand to an extent as she's been through a lot with the ectopic etc but I really don't think she was too fussed about who's sperm it was, she just wants to be a mum. Hopefully he is the one and they live happily ever after.....
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