Exactly. We all have body hang ups and we all have a choice (to a degree) as to whether we do something about them.
I haven't taken care of my teeth over the years. And I can either whinge about them being crooked and yellow or I could do something about them or I can keep my mouth shut (literally and metaphorically
). I'm not about to start blaming other people/the universe for my dental hygiene.
She just has this weird, innate impulse to blame all of her insecurities on other people and refuses to look inward and admit her own shortcomings. Even down to her WEL performance last year. She couldn't just think to herself "well
duck, I sure gave a
tit performance just now. Oh well, shake it off Carrie." she had to publicly blame technical difficulties, threaten to write a tell-all book, and Streisand-effect the whole performance by having recordings of it removed from social media. She wrote a whole post back in March, freshly post-breakup, saying "Do not spend your precious time figuring out how you can become less for someone [...] That is their insecurity for them to work on and it is not your job to shrink yourself down to make them comfortable." and like...
is it? Is it really someone
else's insecurity to work on? Because at the point of her posting that, I seriously don't think Carrie was in Oliver's thoughts at all anymore. But there she was, clearly still in the midst of feeling insecure about it all, but finding a way to shirk the responsibility onto someone who had already moved on.
She just always thinks she's right and justified about everything she feels, and if she's feeling crappy about something, it's never
her issue to face and address herself, it's someone else's fault. "Don't like me posting kissing videos of me and my boyfriend? Deal with it!! I'm going to post even MORE. Everyone who's repulsed by this is clearly a hater, and that's a THEM problem". Like is it, Carrie? Why are you so afraid of admitting a mistake, shortcoming, insecurity and/or personal problem to the world? To yourself?