Scare
You really are a scary mum
Mums are supposed to protect their children with their own life if it comes to it
Small children are meant to learn about their own bodies and what is and isnāt acceptable
Itās done in subtle ways to start with and itās an ongoing process
It all starts with respect, first and foremost they are never forced to kiss and cuddle someone, even family members, it teaches then that their body belongs to them
Then starting as young as Ave-Maria, they are taught the underwear rule, this is for boys and girls but young girls need to be taught the top half of their body is out of bounds too
She shouldnāt be getting naked, or topless for anyone apart from her parents when getting dressed or having a bath or a doctor or medical professional, and even then if itās totally necessary for a particular medical problem
My 7 yo granddaughter has continence issues and under a hospital and has never ever got naked for an examination. Itās always been very respectful. Even X-ray is done with a gown on
Even with you watching, itās so dangerous to let your child get in such a relaxed state with a stranger and even build trust with that stranger
Why has this not triggered your anxiety?
This is your child ffs being put in a vulnerable position
Why has this not triggered you, yet some fat guy in a dirty baseball cap pretending you had an affair with him triggered you to the point of SH?
Please please please please please. Be a decent mum