She can claim she doesn’t care about her weight etc all she wants, fact is her posts say very differently. She is obsessed with her weight, she is constantly referencing her size and weight and trying to make herself feel better about it
Obligatory poseWheeling out Rog for content as per! But why are your not wearing your bikini Bab? The pool was out and it was hot enough, but you're in a long dress Bab. Why's that? #notasize18 #bodypositivefraud
Eh? My daughter is almost 5 and I already marvel at her brilliance. She can count to 100, write her own name and is starting to randomly write other letters too, knew her alphabet before she turned 2, watches Bluey which will NEVER bore me to tears as it is AMAZING, has already been in 2 nativity plays (once as Mary) and she comes for cuddles. Whose toddlers aren't like this? Wanting cuddles and learning new things? I'm not sad my daughter is starting school and leaves her nursery this week forever. I'm sad for HER but I'm looking forward to it! Babs always projects her sadness and anxiety onto her kids. I bet Erin is really looking forward to going to secondary school but she's practically being forced to feel sad and anxious because that's how Bab's feels.She’s UNHINGED I tell you! The woman is manic and needs help.
Also, secondary school kids do all of these things. My 13 year old loves to read with me and my 15th at old often comes for cuddles. She’s not normal. The change to secondary school really isn’t the big drama she’s making it out to be. You’d think Erin was leaving home the way she’s going on!
Probably Babs herself tbf…Some deluded babette/weirdo has created a fan page for her
And that’s fantastic for you! We should all be able to make our own choices about what we wear.
It’s the constant message of what we SHOULD be doing that gets me down. We should be wearing a bikini to make the most of life. That’s what gets me down. The assumption that I am not making the most of my life for the sake of what I am wearing.
For me, it’s not what other people would say or if they would look. That’s never even a thought for me because I genuinely never even register what other people wear. I am so wrapped up in my own problems that I never notice, and I honestly think most other people are the same way.
It’s how I feel. I wouldn’t feel comfortable. Not because of other peoples perceptions but because of how I feel about my body. I don’t like the way I’ve let myself look so I am continuing to do something about it. Wearing a bikini would make me feel worse about it, so I chose not to.
My SIL was off on one yesterday which made me annoyed about the whole thing. Telling me it was a shame that I wasn’t enjoying my time at a splash park with my toddler - becuase I didn’t want to wear swim wear.
In fact, I was having a perfectly lovely time in a t shirt dress, getting splashed and wet, I didn’t care. What I was wearing was an after thought, but it was obviously a problem for her.
ETA it started to piss my husband off too. He ended up saying to his sister “i’m in a t shirt and shorts, why aren’t you looking sad and telling me I am not having fun because i’m not wearing speedos?”
In any case, Emma parading round in ill fitting swimwear will never make me change my mind
And the grid post will be shared to stories with that bleeping annoying ABBA song all over it. AGAIN.Eh? My daughter is almost 5 and I already marvel at her brilliance. She can count to 100, write her own name and is starting to randomly write other letters too, knew her alphabet before she turned 2, watches Bluey which will NEVER bore me to tears as it is AMAZING, has already been in 2 nativity plays (once as Mary) and she comes for cuddles. Whose toddlers aren't like this? Wanting cuddles and learning new things? I'm not sad my daughter is starting school and leaves her nursery this week forever. I'm sad for HER but I'm looking forward to it! Babs always projects her sadness and anxiety onto her kids. I bet Erin is really looking forward to going to secondary school but she's practically being forced to feel sad and anxious because that's how Bab's feels.
*Cue a massive grid post on Friday about Erin. The *one who made me a mother* and how proud she is of her whilst conveniently forgetting that she has a son.