She gets a hard time but I personally believe very little in her life is out of her control.
Everything in her life is within her control, that's whats crazy. She chooses to live in those tiny rooms, because she doesn't save to move out.
She chooses to be down in the dumps about her appearance , because she is to lazy to do anything about it.
She chooses to be lonely , because she is a bratty control freak with no self awareness.
She chooses to be some weird Disney tat obsessed, because she has nothing else going on.