Big C, it’s all about me, me, me

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I really dont think she should be discussing other patients on such a public platform.
It's fantastic when your in that situation when meet someone who gives you hope. But agree the story could have been very identifying of that woman.
 
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I agree gives great hope but as we knew the the day and nearly the time she was in his office I felt it was too much info on the other patient I dont think the consultant would be very happy.
 
I agree gives great hope but as we knew the the day and nearly the time she was in his office I felt it was too much info on the other patient I dont think the consultant would be very happy.
Exactly it's too easy to pin down the identity. Sometimes I wonder do they not realise not everyone wants to over share the way they do.

The day she was filming her day after hiding his shoes. Does he even know that went online for everyone to see.

My husband won't even let me out a picture of him on my social media some ppl just don't want to share
 
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That was embarrassing, it was like she had a full on crush on this man ! And boasting she had his phone number was weird
This tit actually makes my blood boil the same man is my oncologist also he’s an amazing human who’s pulled me from deaths door twice in the last year. But if I need to get in contact with him I have to go through a nurse and can be days waiting for a reply and this one has him on speed dial!!! Infuriates me big time 🤬
 
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This tit actually makes my blood boil the same man is my oncologist also he’s an amazing human who’s pulled me from deaths door twice in the last year. But if I need to get in contact with him I have to go through a nurse and can be days waiting for a reply and this one has him on speed dial!!! Infuriates me big time 🤬
That’s shocking!! If that was me I would find it hard to bite my tongue and not say anything.
Hope you are well on your way to recovery 😘
 
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That’s shocking!! If that was me I would find it hard to bite my tongue and not say anything.
Hope you are well on your way to recovery 😘
Doing good thank you 😘 he’s a fantastic man and doctor that’ll do anything to help in your shitstorm but when you hear the shite from her it just boils me 🤣
 
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This tit actually makes my blood boil the same man is my oncologist also he’s an amazing human who’s pulled me from deaths door twice in the last year. But if I need to get in contact with him I have to go through a nurse and can be days waiting for a reply and this one has him on speed dial!!! Infuriates me big time 🤬
Say it to his secretary.
I'm sure they won't be long telling you that it's bullshit.
I hope it is.
Because that's not really nice from your perspective.
Hope you're ok.
 
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Say it to his secretary.
I'm sure they won't be long telling you that it's bullshit.
I hope it is.
Because that's not really nice from your perspective.
Hope you're ok.
Thank you I’m good thank god 😘 I have him in a weeks time so I just might ask the nurse what’s the story there.
 
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I had dealings with this consultant for a close relative and no way were we offered his mobile its bugging me then when I see o he texted me even on a sat.id love to know is it true.
I wonder how he feels about another patient of his being discussed on such a public platform I know no names etc mentioned but not hard for him to know who was being discussed I'd be suprised if he was ok with it
 
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Thank you I’m good thank god 😘 I have him in a weeks time so I just might ask the nurse what’s the story there.
I hope your appointment goes ok with him.
No harm in asking🤫
My mum had him years ago briefly, and I remember he was mannerly but not first names or having the bants, my mother had a complex case, but we were never given special treatment like Shannen.
 
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Is having his number all bullshit ? I said it a few pages back its so so unfair on his other patients if she can text him at midnight when she wants and others going through secretary's and waiting etc . There's more than her that attends him . I wouldnt be surprised if the number is bullshit to sound more serious and important .
 
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Thank you I’m good thank god 😘 I have him in a weeks time so I just might ask the nurse what’s the story there.
If he was my Dr too I wouldn't hold back mentioning it.
I'm sorry this will sound awful but who does she think she is. He is a Dr to so many and she is here making out she has 24/7 easy access. That would of course hurt and annoy his other patients.

She made a big deal out of being private one time maybe she feels as a private patient she has to get full access.

I go private to my consultant and like you it's through the Nurse I get contact no direct line. As if a consultant would have time for that anyway.

Best of luck with your appointment
 
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Is having his number all bullshit ? I said it a few pages back its so so unfair on his other patients if she can text him at midnight when she wants and others going through secretary's and waiting etc . There's more than her that attends him . I wouldnt be surprised if the number is bullshit to sound more serious and important .
I called it ages ago.
I called it bullshit.
I still call it bullshit.
Maybe ringing the secretary and asking is it a common occurrence that his number is given out to contact 24/7, might clarify things...
 
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I hope your appointment goes ok with him.
No harm in asking🤫
My mum had him years ago briefly, and I remember he was mannerly but not first names or having the bants, my mother had a complex case, but we were never given special treatment like Shannen.
@Airyfairy thank you 😘 in saying that from the minute I sat in front of him we have savage bants I always leave him laughing well 99% of the time 🤣 always asks how husband kids are doing usual shite chats before the serious chats. I’m definitely going to ask the nurse tho what’s the story I won’t mention her name I’ll just casually ask in a round about way x

If he was my Dr too I wouldn't hold back mentioning it.
I'm sorry this will sound awful but who does she think she is. He is a Dr to so many and she is here making out she has 24/7 easy access. That would of course hurt and annoy his other patients.

She made a big deal out of being private one time maybe she feels as a private patient she has to get full access.

I go private to my consultant and like you it's through the Nurse I get contact no direct line. As if a consultant would have time for that anyway.

Best of luck with your appointment
@Socialmediabite your so right he has a LOT of sick people in his care would love to know why she thinks she’s more important than the rest of us warriors xx

I called it ages ago.
I called it bullshit.
I still call it bullshit.
Maybe ringing the secretary and asking is it a common occurrence that his number is given out to contact 24/7, might clarify things...
He’s rang me a few times during lockdown when I was ment to have clinic and couldn’t go but never ever from a mobile always from the hospital line. duck it I’ll ask my nurse tomorrow it’s getting the better of me now 😭
 
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Of course its bullshit. I have a great relationship with my consultant. Still have to go through his secretary to speak to him. The only direct number/email I have is my clinical nurse specialist and every patient gets their number. My consultant would be mortified if I was speaking about him/other patients on an open social media to thousands.
 
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Is having his number all bullshit ? I said it a few pages back its so so unfair on his other patients if she can text him at midnight when she wants and others going through secretary's and waiting etc . There's more than her that attends him . I wouldnt be surprised if the number is bullshit to sound more serious and important .
I can assure you it is bullshit. I don’t know the man personally but I know that if there was an ounce of truth to this he’d be reported to medical council. You cannot treat patients differently so if you’re a consultant giving your number to one patient then you have to be giving it to them all. Personally I think she has more issues than cancer. She screams of personality disorder to me. She says this stuff which is complete nonsense but on one level I think she sort of half believes it herself. She has a warped reality of their relationship and she sees him almost as god and sort of worships him. I’m not explaining it great but it’s not uncommon among patients and their treating consultants. She idolises him and their relationship in her mind is something more than patient/doctor.
 
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