Ben Chilwell #2 Ben's harem sent us all into meltdown, show us more flesh so we can all calm down!

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I was going to say pick me but...I don't know if I see Benji as husband material 😂 I'll stay with Kai.
I think he maybe used to be husband material buuuut has been heavily influenced by his friends/football friends/the exposure he’s had to anything and everything he wants 😬

I still would though
 
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Omg i have a love/hate relationship with this movie. I loved the techniques while watching this WHAT A MASTERPIECE but still it made me so sad to see the slavery and all that
I adore it and think it’s good from a historical perspective but also it’s so LONG!

I was going to say pick me but...I don't know if I see Benji as husband material 😂 I'll stay with Kai.
I think if I’m single for much longer I’d even marry 🐌

This is what life has come to
 
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I think he maybe used to be husband material buuuut has been heavily influenced by his friends/football friends/the exposure he’s had to anything and everything he wants 😬

I still would though
I guess im stupid😂considering i was cheated on twice i have no right to talk about husban materials but he seems quite decent🥺❤
 
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I think he maybe used to be husband material buuuut has been heavily influenced by his friends/football friends/the exposure he’s had to anything and everything he wants 😬

I still would though
By the way i know he is middle class and he is a devout Christian probably i could never have the same opinions and same lifestyle with him or people like him because i dont believe in marriage. I like him because he is just nothing like his cheater friend Jack Grealish and Madders but he tries to create an image of himself like he is like them.
 
I guess im stupid😂considering i was cheated on twice i have no right to talk about husban materials but he seems quite decent🥺❤
Girl you’re not stupid, whoever those two people were are stupid. Don’t forget that ❤
 
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Girl you’re not stupid, whoever those two people were are stupid. Don’t forget that ❤
You can’t even imagine the amount of gaslighting i was exposed to. One of them was english and he knew that i was cheated and yet he did it anyway. Since then i cannot really count on anybody😂end of story. I am still recovering from gaslighting:( i loved these words thanks😘❤
 
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I guess im stupid😂considering i was cheated on twice i have no right to talk about husban materials but he seems quite decent🥺❤
Mine cheated with at least 3 that I know about so I feel you ❤ Even if it was BC I’d be done…

I’m in that recovering from gaslighting phase too… sending love
 
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I really feel when Ben settles down it will be with a nice, normal, decent girl. He’s quite middle class and I think the models and influencers are for his playing around years. Course I’m probably totally wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️
I think the same thing. I think now he just wants to have fun (as he should) with all of them because he's young and etc...
 
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He looks 10/10. Call the fire brigade my Fanny’s on fire 🔥
We watched this interview with my friends mutd supporter brother before the game against albanie and he said « he is still whining » and i just said « duck you » sometimes people are just so stupid for taking mental health for granted... im still sorry about how his voice shaking❤ Virtual hugs for ben and anyone who needs it
 
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I think he maybe used to be husband material buuuut has been heavily influenced by his friends/football friends/the exposure he’s had to anything and everything he wants 😬

I still would though
In fact I think he tries to show/create an image of himself that doesn't match his reality.
I think he tries to show an image of being someone "cool"... If that makes sense lol

I guess im stupid😂considering i was cheated on twice i have no right to talk about husban materials but he seems quite decent🥺❤
No way, you're not stupid!!!!
 
In fact, I think he tries to create an image of himself that doesn't match his reality.
I think he tries to show an image of being someone "cool"... If that makes sense lol
Deffo agree 😂 he is already cool the way he is but he is trying so hard sometimes. Ben is always hot chocolate and marshmallows type of softie perfect guy for me ❤
 
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In fact I think he tries to show/create an image of himself that doesn't match his reality.
I think he tries to show an image of being someone "cool"... If that makes sense lol
I think so too. Hanging out with Deli, Jack and Madders has done that to him. Deep down he’s a middle class lad who likes to play chess, and learn piano. He’s always so polite and well spoken too ❤
 
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You can’t even imagine the amount of gaslighting i was exposed to. One of them was english and he knew that i was cheated and yet he did it anyway. Since then i cannot really count on anybody😂end of story. I am still recovering from gaslighting:( i loved these words thanks😘❤
Mine cheated with at least 3 that I know about so I feel you ❤ Even if it was BC I’d be done…

I’m in that recovering from gaslighting phase too… sending love


We’ve got you both. Men are trash x
 
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In fact I think he tries to show/create an image of himself that doesn't match his reality.
I think he tries to show an image of being someone "cool"... If that makes sense lol
Yeah, classic middle-class kid 😂 how do you all think I ended up as a metalhead that dyed her blonde hair black as a teen? 🙈 So cool 🤪 (I mean, the music part is cool. I still listen to that).
And I still do it. I hate people calling me posh. So it's the same for him, I'm sure.
 
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