My husband and I had the same experience. He’s American, I’m British. We got engaged in the US in Feb 2020. I flew home, having already planned to take extended leave from my job to stay with my fiancé for 6 weeks to plan the wedding/visas etc. but Covid hit and we were apart for 7 months because of the travel ban. In the end I had to go to a country that would be acceptable for the US for just over 2 weeks and took the most anxious flight of my life from Europe to NYC. Then when I arrived with no money, no job (I ended up leaving my job in the end) I got questioned about my intent by border control, had my passport seized etc but was finally let through. A few weeks later, we ended up eloping. Started our marriage in a small studio apartment with hardly any furniture, just us and our cat… we’ve been together for less time than Becky and JP and have been through way more. We did long distance for about 3 years. We now live in the UK, my husband has a good job, I have a job I love, too. We made it happen. It’s so sad that she cannot see the
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all over this relationship. It’s sad she cannot see her worth in this…but maybe this is how she likes it!? I dunno….
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I dunno, I’m not defending their relationship at all, but my husband is not really a social media person so much anymore (even though we got to know each other on Instagram) but he doesn’t really post me on his socials. Or really at all…