To be honest I am not surprised so many men in their 30s/40s want a hard yes or no answer regarding having kids. I personally want kids and am in my last 20s, so am not looking for someone who is unsure to potentially waste 2/3 years on only to find out their answer is eventually ‘no’. She herself is desperate to settle down, and has a long list of requirements/wants for her future partner - how is it unfair for a man to be the same? She is on Planet Beckie. She’s also very much giving femcel here/recently - not a great look when you’re looking for a partnet.