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She did post yesterday or the day before about spending the evening with āJohn and Chrisā.
Sooo... just like everyone else is? She has such a strange understanding of what being in a relationship means, I reckon it could be the reason she's not in a relationship right now. Just because I have a partner doesn't mean we're attached at the hip and do everything while holding hands. If you're unhappy being on your own, you'll be unhappy with someone else too. A partner (contrary to what Beckie believes) doesn't cure illnesses, doesn't solve money problems, isn't someone you can trauma dump on, expect attention from 24/7 etc. I'd say something really poetic now on what a relationship really is but can't think of anything lmao, just trying to say that a relationship doesn't make life perfect so you should learn to cope with tit on your own first and foremost and not expect applause for doing so
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Welcome to life, Beckie.
She thinks that she is better than all of us 100%, and definitely more quirky because no one understand her
she needs to get a gripLook I was trying to be nice and sensitive in my previous post regarding this but this story made me want to retch?? Searching for a man as if heās a rare mushroom? Girl get a bleeping grip and go to a church meet or something ffs
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"I'm the second go" does she really believe whenever 2 people in their late twenties meet each other, neither will have ever had a relationship before? People have baggage and she's not the only one, this is what adult relationships are like because they have to be!
when I read this I laughed out loud. She is delusional. Most people who are heading on to thirty have had a previous relationship, it doesnāt mean your a second goIād honestly be more concerned if I met a guy in his 30s that hadnāt had a previous relationship.
Beckie herself has had relationships, so thatās a bit hypocritical. She even says a negative of dating is that āthey arenāt my exesā. Does she really want to be back with a man who supposedly abandoned her and left her feeling disposable?!
Beckie herself has had relationships, so thatās a bit hypocritical. She even says a negative of dating is that āthey arenāt my exesā. Does she really want to be back with a man who supposedly abandoned her and left her feeling disposable?!
It sounds like sheās still hung up on the creep who groomed her when she was a teenager, which is ultimately very sad and something she should really attend therapy to discuss because itās not her fault she feels this way but itās also not healthy and needs to be addressed before it gets in the way of the rest of her life. She knows all of this but once again will fall back on criticising the NHS for not being able to access free therapy, all while owning her own property and definitely having the means to fund private counselling, which isnāt as expensive as she makes it out to be.
"I won't commit to kids so I am a red flag" - what the duck? No. It's called being a bleeping adult and this being a topic of conversation at some stage when you're with someone or deciding whether to give something a go. Jesus Christ, Beckie.
She makes it - in her usual manner - sound as she and only she is contacted via dating apps only for sex. SHE and only she!!!! is a victim! Can no one hear her cry?
That whole essay is a red flag, honestly. She needs to learn to just... let go, be free, and look forwards.
The fact she talks about "everything previously is a trigger" / "exes" / "a second go" etc... and we know how she literally clings to everything from her past, not just guys and relationships. She's deeply insecure, troubled, and it's no wonder she won't find anyone. She won't even help herself first.
The fact she talks about "everything previously is a trigger" / "exes" / "a second go" etc... and we know how she literally clings to everything from her past, not just guys and relationships. She's deeply insecure, troubled, and it's no wonder she won't find anyone. She won't even help herself first.
Omg Iām convinced she got a rejection from John or something. Iām sure of it lol.
All that list says to me is that she doesnāt know what an adult relationship is or entails. And thatās why she will remain alone. It has nothing to do with religion or kids or exes. Itās that sheās living in her little Disney princess world and getting mad when it is not reality.
All that list says to me is that she doesnāt know what an adult relationship is or entails. And thatās why she will remain alone. It has nothing to do with religion or kids or exes. Itās that sheās living in her little Disney princess world and getting mad when it is not reality.
To be fair to her, I think she's mostly referring to divorcees as she's said similar stuff before, that she feels everyone suitable her age is already married with children. Not that that's true of course, she's 29 not 60! Though given that essay, she's not giving herself much of a chance of finding someone at all let alone this supposed perfect person who will immediately understand all her trauma without her having to tell them or indeed put any effort into herself or the relationship whatsoever...
I thought she wanted kids? A couple years ago she was saying she has to get into a relationship QUICKLY due to biological clock. She wants a Christian man - much older - who doesnt want kids and has never been married before.. Not gonna happen.
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