Beckhams #3 What do David's hair and Victoria have in common? They're both ridiculously thin!

[Annabanana40]

I do feel sorry for Victoria to an extent, but she's in a mich much better position than most women with a partner like that, she could leave him and have a lovely life, but she wouldn't have brand Beckham, I think it's the fame, brand and status as a power couple that keeps her in it, which is just sad. She's putting wealth, fame and vanity first.

 

[Lady_H]

@Misbehaving those are 2 wonderful posts. I am sorry you had to deal with a narc in your own relationship. As you say it takes experience of one to know one. And you articulate that toxic dynamic so well. Thanks also for explaining why the video of David draping himself over Harper seemed so inappropriate. I think anyone with decent boundaries could pick up on something being “not quite right” there.

Years of emotional abuse can wear a person down to nothing. If it is the case (and I do believe it is) that he is a malignant narc then the amount of money she has or the financial ability to leave him is completely irrelevant. I don’t believe that people actively choose fame and power over happiness, more that they forget what happiness is and lose the roadmap of how to get back there. It is likely shame, low self esteem and the fear of being alone and would be said about her if she left him, that is keeping her stuck. Let’s not underestimate how incredibly difficult it is for people to extract themselves from these relationships, in some ways even more difficult if they are so high profile.

 

[Eureka]

Oh that makes me so sad for Victoria.I actually think David is emotionally abusive and distant like he got what he wanted from her (job done) and now discarded.
I think he just makes her feel massively insecure and not appreciated and I still think it's something that partially triggered her eating disorder.
The man is frigging toxic imo and no I can't stand the creepy way he invades his daughter's personal space (because that's what he is doing) it's called emotional incest Dave! (See Liz Hurley and Damian for another example and various other celebs)
Grooming his daughter by making her the golden child (and chip off the old block just like daddy because narcissists can't give you love but only their own reflection as exhibited by others) so she's the special and chosen one....and their are no boundaries because she is seen as an extension of her father and it's all ego based not love?
Love would give children freedom and space to develop in their own time and to discover themselves what their passions are?
As it is I think all of their kids are assigned roles to place and surprise surprise Harper's role is that of daddy's girl except it's not the usual dad doting on his daughter because it's too close for comfort and i am sorry the way he nuzzles her neck and drapes himself around her like a cobra is both suffocating and disturbing!
Also looking into the camera with that creepy smug face of his makes me want to puke!
It's like he's proud of himself because he can get away with doing whatever he feels like and his daughter trusts him so she won't object (not yet anyway because she doesn't know any different)?
Sorry folks for going off on one but I have been in a similar situation with my own daughter and you know sadly it's more commonplace than people realise.I nearly got divorced over this because my needy emotional vampire of a husband just couldn't resist getting my daughter on side and also neglecting the 3 boys (Yeap same as Victoria here daughter being the youngest)!
So I feel for her and I understand how it happens (slowly) and yeah there are elements of them both being good dad's (or seeming to be) love of cooking in touch with the feminine side both attentive to their daughters but the problem is that they take it too far?
Like they don't know when to rein it in? The adoration of a young girl who hangs on their every word plus a wife who is peri menopausal and they are emotionally distant from is just too tempting?
I also think that's why in a similar way Victoria also became too close to her boys (it's like an echo of David) except and this is a big difference she will have done it because she is lonely?
David has done it because he's greedy and controlling and on a (smug) power trip.
Disgusting self satisfied vacuous egotistical prat who cares if you can kick a ball around a field (not that well either)! I think that deep down inside he's secretly glad if his sons are dunces so that they won't be competition for him!
He is also happy imo for his wife to starve herself to oblivion or bury herself in heaps of mindless activity just so he isn't haunted by the ghost she has become.
Meanwhile he has his young daughter all too himself and isn't he happy because of that!
Again Mark of a narcissist they always seek to isolate! Feeding off empathic supply which as his daughter she will give to him!
Again I will say it for me he's nothing more than an emotional abuser and tyrant and I think Victoria has always tried to save face and force it to work but it never really will because his heart isn't in the whole charade that's because he doesn't have a heart to begin with!

Fantasic post. I said a while back to someone that Harper has replaced Vic as David’s girl. Not suggesting he’s abused her or anything btw but the photos with Harper are more like those of someone with their girlfriend. The posts withVictoria are so detached and cold.

 

[Anasnake]

Awkward pic on IG

 

[Eureka]

Awkward pic on IG

He loves making her look pathetic and desperate doesn’t he?

 

[Miss Havisham]

The face he is pulling in that photo. What is he trying to say? That his wife annoys him?
I cannot stand him - and I notice that he is not ageing well.

 

[Anasnake]

He’s getting a slating for the Qatar deal

 

[HandTmum]

He’s getting a slating for the Qatar deal

Rightly so, surely someone in his team would have understood there could be some backlash but no all they thought about was the £££!

 

[Pennypennypenny]

I feel for her, I wish she would have a bit more pride. The way she hangs all over him is cringe inducing because it’s never reciprocated

 

[FrostyChops]

I feel so sad that she has become like a shadow of the person she used to be.

He is a vile creep.

 

[MrAllSeeingEye]

The look he gave her on her stories while he was making chocolate balls!

 

[Muses]

I was delighted when I saw it here that she's apparently been with her bodyguard for years (that the marriage is a sham/business arrangement now). I really, really hope it's true as she deserves to be happy and loved.

 

[Poggypig]

David saying that his balls are full

 

[JulieScoobyDoo]

How can he be an Ambassador for UNICEF whilst taking millions from a country with one of the worst human rights records? Proof he’s morally bankrupt

 

[Rita Chevrolet]

How can he be an Ambassador for UNICEF whilst taking millions from a country with one of the worst human rights records? Proof he’s morally bankrupt

Be fair Julie - he needs all the money he can get to support precious Brookie in whatever he is going to excell at next You know - photography, making a bacon sandwich, it takes skill and money dontcha know LOL

 

[Ndrangheta]

How can he be an Ambassador for UNICEF whilst taking millions from a country with one of the worst human rights records? Proof he’s morally bankrupt

I posted earlier that there are calls for him to be stripped of his role with UNICEF. Tbf to Dave, he's thick as a plank. I very much doubt he even knows where Qatar is, he probably thinks it's a musical instrument or something. Thick c*nt.

 

[Lady_H]

Beckham the LGBTQetcetc champion and self professed feminist more than happy to take Qatar shilling where, quite apart from the disregard of human rights, 4000 people have died building the stadium. What an absolutely revolting human being he is. Mind you I can’t understand how the league that took the knee and wore rainbow laces earlier this year could even countenance sending an England team out there. The hypocrisy of the whole thing really defies belief.

"Some of the laws and beliefs in the region differ to his own but the Qataris have always said that everyone will be safe and welcome at the World Cup in 2022 and he believes that commitment is sincere and has seen evidence of proactive engagement with the international LBGTQ community by the World Cup organisers."

Oh well that’s all right then. bleeping idiot.

Beckham urged to speak out on Qatar

Former England captain David Beckham is urged to speak out about the "deeply concerning" human rights situation in Qatar by Amnesty International.

www.bbc.co.uk

 

[SavetheDrama]

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The face he is pulling in that photo. What is he trying to say? That his wife annoys him?
I cannot stand him - and I notice that he is not ageing well.

He’s looking quite rough isn’t he?

 

[MrAllSeeingEye]

So I see Romeos girlfriend is now being roped into flogging his Mum’s beauty line....

 

[Yel]

I kinda feel sorry for him and the other kids, all these unearned things he's landed without ever trying are hardly setting him up to be a balanced and stable individual.

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