First of all Val, why so vague, explain this fixation issue! Why should the whole family give up gatherings? You say it’s not all about Jessica but sure sounds like it. It’s a family effort? That’s great Val but what are you going to do when there’s no one left to help. Not everyone has caregivers and lazy siblings with no life. Most people work. And why such secrecy about Hannah’s mystery illness that affects her heart, her intestinal issues, fatigue, chronic shoulder and back pain, an illness that caused her life to be touch and go! It doesn’t make a lot of sense. Could it have been a drug overdose that almost took her life and scripting it as a mystery illness with debilitating ongoing issues. Why would you allow Jessica to make all your lives hell when we’ve seen that a firm voice saying Stop seems to work. All of her behaviours are not anxiety. You tried everything you could? No Val, you had every opportunity for Jess to have that joyful life you speak of but instead you blamed, doctors, dentists, bus drivers, caregivers, teachers, schools, in home therapists, anxiety, blindness, mild cp. No one in her life understood her or measured up. No one knew better than you, so Val your life is what you made it. Free Hannah if it’s not to late before you screw up her life more than you have now. Jessica is your problem, suck it up buttercup! And yes Val, it is all about Jessica, it’s obvious it always has been!