Omg same!!! It’s doing my head in!I just need to say I am SO sick of that Lizzo song everyone is using at the moment. I have to skip anything that has that song now.
Omg same!!! It’s doing my head in!I just need to say I am SO sick of that Lizzo song everyone is using at the moment. I have to skip anything that has that song now.
Woahhh the internalised misogyny you have re Abbie is.. quite something. Re the open relationship- has it not occurred to you that Abbie might have other reasons for wanting it than merely ‘desperation to get a man’? She’s bisexual, after allI understand the fundamentals of polyamory (instead of relying solely on one partner for all your needs you have multiple partners for different needs) and what she’s doing isn’t polyamory it’s … sheer desperation.
She should know by now given how hard it’s been for her to even land a bloke that men aren’t lining for her. Take the hint, Abbie.
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again but not everything needs a label. Open relationships are always going to leave people really uncomfortable, doesn’t mean they have internalised misogyny. I personally would never want to share my partner but I certainly don’t hate Abbie for it, I just think it’s very weird. No label needed I said this with love too and I didn’t mean for it to come across as rude xxxWoahhh the internalised misogyny you have re Abbie is.. quite something. Re the open relationship- has it not occurred to you that Abbie might have other reasons for wanting it than merely ‘desperation to get a man’? She’s bisexual, after all
I have internalised misogyny because she’s sooking that her bf has managed to hook up with many people since they opened their relationship but she hasn’t? Hmm …Woahhh the internalised misogyny you have re Abbie is.. quite something. Re the open relationship- has it not occurred to you that Abbie might have other reasons for wanting it than merely ‘desperation to get a man’? She’s bisexual, after all
I have friends that are in an open relationship and they are very happy. They have rules around it that apply to both of them. It's definitely not for me but I respect people's choices.I so agree, why bother being in a relationship if you just want to sleep with other people.
I actually didn’t even think of this, she could have kept the whole thing quiet and no one would have thought anything of itI have friends that are in an open relationship and they are very happy. They have rules around it that apply to both of them. It's definitely not for me but I respect people's choices.
Comments like that ine just show such a lack of understanding.
However, whether Abbie wants an open relationship or not, or is just doing it for her BF - she knew the reaction she was going to get when she announced it. And then rather then move on, she went into one of her huge rants and came off sounding like a petulant child.
Any positives she tried to show around unconventional relationships got lost in her little tantrum
But then how would you know she’s a “Cool Girl”?I actually didn’t even think of this, she could have kept the whole thing quiet and no one would have thought anything of it
Totally agree with you! I also have friends who have open relationships/occasionally sleep with people other than their spouse and seem really happy with their arrangements- it’s not for me personally but I love hearing about all different relationship types and dynamics. But she does seem to overtly bring attention to things she thinks will get a big reaction and extra press coverage and then act all annoyed when it actually happens. Also re: the clothing range, it’s f*king revolting. Cheap nasty fabric and as a size 10 I can imagine the clit chafe that horribly cut jumpsuit would cause! It didn’t look nice, or comfortable or anyone so I don’t understand the point.Announcing it is fine - I'm all for showing how different relationships can work. But she knew what she was doing. And the meltdown after ruined any positives that could have come from it