Ashley James #48 She wants her friends pyjama distance and to forget her kids existence

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Ada must be bleeping sweating if she’s keeping black blackout blinds down in the day. Idiot 🙄
I don’t live in an expensive house in London, so maybe I’m missing something…but why doesn’t she just book a curtain place to come out and fit proper blackout blinds (or curtains) to the windows?? She can afford it.
 
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I don’t live in an expensive house in London, so maybe I’m missing something…but why doesn’t she just book a curtain place to come out and fit proper blackout blinds (or curtains) to the windows?? She can afford it.
Yesterday she couldn’t afford to let £104 go for the ABBA tickets she booked at the wrong time. That massive mortgage won’t pay itself!
 
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What advice does she need re black out blinds, the clue in is the title. Black out blinds. They are what they are. She needs to think as to pattern, style?!
Is her mum on some spectrum? Alf and her mum look a bit vacant?
 
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Guys, no one told her you can go out 2 nights in a row in Essex, she had to move to London to be able to do that 😂
 
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Sorry did she just really write a post and say she never gets out anymore???? Who does she think believes that? She posts her every move, she’s never at home unless the kids aren’t there 😂 she gets out more than I do and I don’t have kids!
 
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Here’s an idea… I dunno, maybe instead of spending 3 weeks hanging up framed photos of yourself maybe get someone in to fit blackout blinds? Maybe sort your priorites out. Just a thought
 
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Here’s an idea… I dunno, maybe instead of spending 3 weeks hanging up framed photos of yourself maybe get someone in to fit blackout blinds? Maybe sort your priorites out. Just a thought

It’s hilarious isn’t it? Who the duck cares THAT much about getting their pictures up when you first move in? She makes my head hurt trying to understand why she does what she does. Especially if she now is whinging she needs (sorry, on the beg for) blackout blinds 😂
 
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She can get wardrobes built on the day she gets the keys to the new house so her clothes can be hung up, but can’t organise a blind fitter … but also does have a blackout in Ada’s room and she still wakes at 5am but wants to know more about blackout blinds. Make it make sense!
 
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I kind of think she's a bit lonely to be honest and she thought moving back to London would solve that.
I hope so 🫠

It was such a stupid move. It was never going to fix her issues. She needed to do a hell of a lot of self reflection and get some proper psychological help, not uproot her entire family to London and hope all her issues would just be magically fixed.
 
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she doesn't have any friends. Jas is the only one. She tries to convince herself its the life stage she's in, the provincial life of she briefly submitted to, her 'mum' era, or her desire for a career - but its none of those things because Tommy does clearly have friends and sees them often. She is insecure and therefore resents him. But really its because she's spent the last decade promoting her shred of a career at the expense of her friends - and as soon as she was busy with young children they took their opportunity to drop them. Its really sad but entirely down to her immature and entitled personality that clearly hasn't developed since her mid teens.
 
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What’s mad is you look at Ryan and Lucy and they’ve always got a house full! Whether it be friends or family. They go back to Essex for friends birthdays/general catch ups. AND THEY DONT LIVE IN LONDON. You don’t see Lucy saying she ‘loves bumping into people’ (hilarious. Maybe she actually means the cat she abandoned 3 years ago)

She has no juggle. She’s said she can fit her work around Ada but so far she’s had the nanny in most of the time ‘to do non important work stuff’ and sort out her clothes that are too big (🎻) If Tom is out most nights he really deserves his new found freedom and may it last. Jas will be sick of her soon
 
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As if she’s bumping in to people all the time 😂 like everyone she ever knew lives in the same crappy corner of Wandsworth! There are 10 apartments in my building and after two years I’ve literally still never “bumped in” to two of my neighbours!
 
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If she’d made some friends in Brentwood, she’d have a much higher chance of bumping into people.

I live in a town of about 500k people and I see people I know occasionally, but it’s pretty rare that I “bump into” anyone I’d actually want to stop and talk to.
 
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God that Heidi is defending 'w sitting' as if everyone that's had children is wrong. I can't tell if she's ashley in a well hidden account or an unwell sycophant that thinks ashley will befriend her. I really don't want to out myself but I am someone with professional experience of this and no its not normal, discourage, discourage, discourage. Unable to walk up steps at 3 and half is not a "oh he'll do it in his own time" it's a significant delay and warrants specialist assessment. Alf needs support now.
 
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Heidi and MUA 😂 honestly, I have no idea why Heidi defends Ash on every single thing.



I don't know anything about W sitting but what I do know is that boy doesn't sit any other way, ever. Now and then probably isn't an issue but constant W sitting, his gait, his struggles to get up 2 stairs etc more than likely indicate he needs some kind of professional help.
 
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