Ashley James #45 The Science of Parenting - won’t sleep? Won’t eat? Prolapse? Soft play!

[willowtree2]

The new followers she’s gained are completely vile. One lady made a comment on the TM insta video of palmer violet Ash’s revealing suit and she got attacked savagely by SO many women.

I’m starting to think this whole feminist TM ‘trail blazer’ persona is going to lead her to taking the kids offline as that, freebie aside, only gets her engagement from Tattlers and her DM’s must get savage off the back of her questionable parenting. Flying the ‘queen of all women’ flag will serve her much better and just to top it off she’ll cry ‘my kids deserve privacy’ to make her look even more saint-like

 

[No_f_in_clue]

Tell me your boyfriend is gay without telling me....

 

[okdo2022]

Tell me your boyfriend is gay without telling me....

“Different night time routines” what does that even mean?

 

[clmay]

I have a toddler and during the week I guess we have different ‘routines’ in that I like to chill by getting into bed early and reading tattle and he likes to stay up later and watch TV. But he still comes and gets in the same bed later on! Different beds can’t be a great sign for your relationship. Even if you’re not having a lot of sexy time it’s still a form of intimacy sharing a bed

 

[Fuzzyslippers22]

I have a toddler and during the week I guess we have different ‘routines’ in that I like to chill by getting into bed early and reading tattle and he likes to stay up later and watch TV. But he still comes and gets in the same bed later on! Different beds can’t be a great sign for your relationship. Even if you’re not having a lot of sexy time it’s still a form of intimacy sharing a bed

She posted a load of guff a few months ago about the benefits of separate bedrooms. As someone who grew up with parents in separate rooms, it warps your view of relationships and affection (obviously other things add to this for me personally, but she is a horrible woman and it wouldn't surprise me if they weren't affectionate and loving in front of the kids as well)

 

[Larahk]

She posted a load of guff a few months ago about the benefits of separate bedrooms. As someone who grew up with parents in separate rooms, it warps your view of relationships and affection (obviously other things add to this for me personally, but she is a horrible woman and it wouldn't surprise me if they weren't affectionate and loving in front of the kids as well)

Troll! She always asks Tommy to give her a little peck for the camera whenever they are having a family photo!!!! That's affection

 

[kiraaarrrr]

Cannot believe Ashley wasn’t headlining this
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Raver tots it’s actually brilliant, highly recommend it! But ‘Big Fish Little Fish’ is better. Anyone who enjoys clubbing and has a little one that loves music & dancing should check them out. My 3 year old asks “can we go to a rave today mummy” at least once a month

 

[JarvisCockerSpaniel]

Smacks of her privilege as well, everyone being able to have their own room PLUS room for guests. That’s really not the norm for a lot of families.

I honestly think Ash loves herself too much to be in a genuine relationship, so I don’t buy her and TNB being a couple in the traditional sense at all. TNB probably shuts himself away in the loft looking at PE teacher porn and I think she’s more than happy to have a relationship for show and a dogsbody around to pick up the slack.

 

[kiraaarrrr]

Smacks of her privilege as well, everyone being able to have their own room PLUS room for guests. That’s really not the norm for a lot of families.

I honestly think Ash loves herself too much to be in a genuine relationship, so I don’t buy her and TNB being a couple in the traditional sense at all. TNB probably shuts himself away in the loft looking at PE teacher porn and I think she’s more than happy to have a relationship for show and a dogsbody around to pick up the slack.

It’s definitely an ‘arrangement’ not a romantic relationship

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

“Different night time routines” what does that even mean?

Tommy goes to bed and looks at pictures of Ryan.

Ashley goes to bed and looks at pictures of herself.

 

[screenfreelookatme]

“Different night time routines” what does that even mean?

Tommy gets up all night when the kids wake and has to get up at 5am with them. Ashley sleeps undisturbed by anyone until she feels like getting up.

 

[willowtree2]

Even if they have separate bed time routines they have multiple bathrooms/en suites. I just don’t think they like each other

I wonder if Nana knows her boys been kipping on a sofa in the loft. That would raise my eyebrows if it was my grown up son.

 

[BusyDoinNuffin]

Imagine if the roles were reversed and she had to sleep on a sofa bed, closer to the children for their night time waking while he slept, undisturbed, on a different floor in the actual bedroom. Then she had to go out to work for a full day. I mean actual work, not farting around in underwear at home playing at being a business person. How do these fawning followers not see through it all? This isn’t 50:50 at all. It’s a spoiled princess who has manipulated her partner into believing it is, all the while doing the bare minimum. I mean, fair enough if you want to be that kind of person (not even as parent or partner) and it sits comfortably with you do be a diva who would rather use energy convincing others to do things rather than just use the energy doing it, but don’t make content that suggests you have the perfect balance and shouldn’t settle for anything less. The balance is totally tipped in to her favour.
If this was a man gleefully ‘showing off’ about how much his female partner had to do in order to be allowed out, including bringing in childcare to help him during that time, it would be deemed abusive at best.
She continues to show how much of a personality disorder she has.
Mind you while she is emotionally manipulating her partner and using it for content at least her innocent children are being afforded some privacy.
As for the inference she has worked herself ‘up’ from a tough working class background. It just goes to show how scary social media is. You can create a completely false account and misrepresent yourself and all the sheep just buy in.

 

[YahBasic]

Imagine if the roles were reversed and she had to sleep on a sofa bed, closer to the children for their night time waking while he slept, undisturbed, on a different floor in the actual bedroom. Then she had to go out to work for a full day. I mean actual work, not farting around in underwear at home playing at being a business person. How do these fawning followers not see through it all? This isn’t 50:50 at all. It’s a spoiled princess who has manipulated her partner into believing it is, all the while doing the bare minimum. I mean, fair enough if you want to be that kind of person (not even as parent or partner) and it sits comfortably with you do be a diva who would rather use energy convincing others to do things rather than just use the energy doing it, but don’t make content that suggests you have the perfect balance and shouldn’t settle for anything less. The balance is totally tipped in to her favour.
If this was a man gleefully ‘showing off’ about how much his female partner had to do in order to be allowed out, including bringing in childcare to help him during that time, it would be deemed abusive at best.
She continues to show how much of a personality disorder she has.
Mind you while she is emotionally manipulating her partner and using it for content at least her innocent children are being afforded some privacy.
As for the inference she has worked herself ‘up’ from a tough working class background. It just goes to show how scary social media is. You can create a completely false account and misrepresent yourself and all the sheep just buy in.

Completely - plus the financial imbalance with what they earn. If reversed, I’d very much be worried about financial abuse.

 

[BusyDoinNuffin]

Completely - plus the financial imbalance with what they earn. If reversed, I’d very much be worried about financial abuse.

As someone who has professional experience of DA, I completely hear you. The minute there is a power imbalance of some sort, is when all forms of abuse can start to slowly and sometimes very subtly, creep in. Of course that’s the cycle, the power imbalance can happen BECAUSE of the abuse too.

 

[willowtree2]

I wonder if Ryan and Tommy will be getting together soon. It wouldn’t surprise me if ties were cut due to Ash. Him and Lucy MUST see it!?

 

[Flossie2]

Imagine if the roles were reversed and she had to sleep on a sofa bed, closer to the children for their night time waking while he slept, undisturbed, on a different floor in the actual bedroom. Then she had to go out to work for a full day. I mean actual work, not farting around in underwear at home playing at being a business person. How do these fawning followers not see through it all? This isn’t 50:50 at all. It’s a spoiled princess who has manipulated her partner into believing it is, all the while doing the bare minimum. I mean, fair enough if you want to be that kind of person (not even as parent or partner) and it sits comfortably with you do be a diva who would rather use energy convincing others to do things rather than just use the energy doing it, but don’t make content that suggests you have the perfect balance and shouldn’t settle for anything less. The balance is totally tipped in to her favour.
If this was a man gleefully ‘showing off’ about how much his female partner had to do in order to be allowed out, including bringing in childcare to help him during that time, it would be deemed abusive at best.
She continues to show how much of a personality disorder she has.
Mind you while she is emotionally manipulating her partner and using it for content at least her innocent children are being afforded some privacy.
As for the inference she has worked herself ‘up’ from a tough working class background. It just goes to show how scary social media is. You can create a completely false account and misrepresent yourself and all the sheep just buy in.

Well said! 100% this.

 

[DeniseRoyle]

Hilarious that she calls this a job

 

[screenfreelookatme]

As an Australian, I’m offended

Tim Tams are elite, but the best flavour by far is double coat. I don’t know why she’s saying she’s not sure what the equivalent is? It’s almost identical to a Penguin biscuit. All the Brits I know swear that Penguin are better anyway (they’re wrong).

 

[okdo2022]

As an Australian, I’m offended

Tim Tams are elite, but the best flavour by far is double coat. I don’t know why she’s saying she’s not sure what the equivalent is? It’s almost identical to a Penguin biscuit. All the Brits I know swear that Penguin are better anyway (they’re wrong).
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As a Brit who has lived in Australia I can confirm Tim Tams are better