She’s having her evening tattle read it seems… It’s a bit late now Ash cutting out her name
She’s having her evening tattle read it seems… It’s a bit late now Ash cutting out her nameSHE HAS SHARED THE CHILDMINDER’S FULL NAME
Lovely safeguarding x
I’m the same as you. No village.. no help unless it’s a special occasion as our parents (both lost one too) don’t live close. I do weeks in my own every quarter - fortunately I’ve recently not gone back after mat leave. And as one as Trash likes to quote - because my husband is a higher earner we don’t get the 30 hours. If we did, life would have been different but instead I’m enjoying my children for the fact im getting time with them, that I’ve never had before xI’m must be alone here in thinking I’ve never (maybe once or twice) felt mum guilt. I’ve done literally all I can. I’ve breastfed, bottle fed, co-slept, left to cry (controlled), I’ve done preschool from the age of 3, I’ve done school runs, assemblies and I’ve pretty much enjoyed every minute of it. I’ve done it three times and wish I wasn’t too old to do it again. It’s hard yes, I haven’t always had a husband at home - due to work and often weekly commuting and I haven’t had a village to help raise my kids. I’ve done it solo during the week and coparented when my husband has been home. I find it hard to believe she had no idea what being a mother would be like? Does she not use her own mum as a role model or use bits and pieces from her own mother’s ways.
Glad we could help her with a crash course in safeguarding.She’s having her evening tattle read it seems… It’s a bit late now Ash cutting out her name
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I noticed when she shared this yesterday (before deleting) she left the childminders FULL name in full view 🥲 I’d be fucking livid if she used the same childminder as meShe’s having her evening tattle read it seems… It’s a bit late now Ash cutting out her name
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not only would I be livid, I'd probably sueI noticed when she shared this yesterday (before deleting) she left the childminders FULL name in full view 🥲 I’d be fucking livid if she used the same childminder as me
In her twisted mind, I think she thinks that by outsourcing most things, she’s great at the stuff she does do and that’s what makes her a good mum. She knows her limits and makes other plans for the stuff she can’t/won’t do. I’d call that incompetentHow can she call herself a good mum when she outsources all of the challenging bits of parenthood and continuously puts herself first, never thinking about what would be best for her children in any given scenario. I’d love to see how she coped with both of them for a whole day on her own and whether she’d still call herself a good parent at the end
I wonder if Alf will be allowed to touch this. Clearly only for girlsAlf should have been corrected for snatching from Ada but he’s never ever allowed space to explore his own things without Ada there.
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