This whole debate is subjective. It’s not one size fits all. She doesn’t have the ‘real struggle’.
Don’t want to go all mumsnet but when I had my first child I was on my own-had no choice but to go back to full time work ( had a great childminder), -it’s bloody hard-the guilt,tiredness, etc.
The debate/ discussion is definitely worth having but not by her. Absolutely not. But this twisted world of these influencers means they seem to have the voice,unfortunately.