I still only see Alf as Tommys double
She showed Tommy's dad once. Alf is him through and through.I still only see Alf as Tommys double
The apple of Alfâs eye. Lovely day xDonât be a troll. Ash is the most dedicated and hands on parent there ever was x
A really brilliant mum xThe apple of Alfâs eye. Lovely day x
How many selfies does mummy take on a morning Alfie? âHUNDRED!âMy 2 year olds fav number is âSevenâ cos we taught him to shout it like Len Goodman did on Stricly. Key phrase here is âwe taught himâ some days Iâm not sure Ash can count to 100 let alone Alf!
But not just a mum xA really brilliant mum x
You are a wonderful mum. Everything you write about your own children, your care for other little onesâ welfare, your anxiety over Alfâs safety, shows that you have absolute sterling maternal instincts. I donât even have children but know that a parent like you is precious indeed; is to be admired; should be emulated. Never doubt that - and if your MH wobbles a little, look at the love on your childâs face when he smiles up at you.My 4 year old is just about reliably able to identify and name all the numbers up to 100, but still sometimes says twoty instead of twenty, fivety instead of fifty, and gets muddled on the order so for example for 37 might say seventy three.
I am over the moon with him for being able to do this. I actually donât know if itâs average for his age, and I donât even care. I also havenât made it a personality trail like she has with Alf! But do you know what I am really proud of myself about? (And this is a big deal because my MH rarely allows me to believe I do motherhood well) He learnt to identify these big numbers through me reading with him, and playing games especially snakes and ladders.
Not by watching bloody baby tv!!
I love reading things like thisMy 4 year old is just about reliably able to identify and name all the numbers up to 100, but still sometimes says twoty instead of twenty, fivety instead of fifty, and gets muddled on the order so for example for 37 might say seventy three.
I am over the moon with him for being able to do this. I actually donât know if itâs average for his age, and I donât even care. I also havenât made it a personality trail like she has with Alf! But do you know what I am really proud of myself about? (And this is a big deal because my MH rarely allows me to believe I do motherhood well) He learnt to identify these big numbers through me reading with him, and playing games especially snakes and ladders.
Not by watching bloody baby tv!!
Oh, thank you xYou are a wonderful mum. Everything you write about your own children, your care for other little onesâ welfare, your anxiety over Alfâs safety, shows that you have absolute sterling maternal instincts. I donât even have children but know that a parent like you is precious indeed; is to be admired; should be emulated. Never doubt that - and if your MH wobbles a little, look at the love on your childâs face when he smiles up at you.
You exemplify the quote that âGod could not be everywhere, so He created mothersâ.
What she means is, he parrots what he hears on the tv. Some weird alien baby says the words and he copies!I love reading things like this
Ash wouldnât know how to start teaching Alf things like this.
The 4 year old I look after also sometimes reads the numbers backwards so 97 heâll say 79. No way Alf has ever ever EVER been exposed to numbers above 10.
She picks the weirdest things to lie about.
She wouldnât even have 100 of the same thing for him to count? You know like the wooden blocks in a push along trolley, or small cubes / counting bears.
Iâd love someone to study her brain.
I mean every word. Iâm not one to give false compliments or cheer (in fact, Iâm brutally honest and have to be very careful not to blurt out âwell, yesâ when someone says âhave I put on weight?â but answer âare you trying a new exercise regime?â). I donât blow smoke or try to make people feel better about themselves when itâs not warranted. From all youâve written, I can tell that youâre good, youâre sincere and youâre devoted to your child. If you werenât - if you were a Ms James - you wouldnât get the response from him that you do.Oh, thank you x
As far as I remember those were the words yeah, that was back when I genuinely followed her instead of hate following. And I remember thatâs the point when I realised she wasnât the person she likes to make out.Is that slightlyâŚworse? Does she fetishise Black men? Or am I being TOO unpleasant about her? Honestly, though, I wouldnât put anything past her: she lies with such ease (though not fluently) that she is impossible to trust; and her treatment of her little son is so abhorrent that it makes all her pronouncements ring hollow.
Were those her exact words? Wasnât interested in sharing a link pertaining to Black maternal mortality rates, and systemic bias in the health system?
Could she possibly get any worse at this point?!
And definitely NOT for the male gaze xBut not just a mum x