Guys, I have a question. Alf has Tommy's surname. She has said that she never wants to get married & she is oh so feminist... Why doesn't Alf have her surname?
When I had my first, I wasn't married to their dad, but they got his surname because we knew we'd eventually get married & I'd have the same surname.
Why, if Ashley is such a feminist, little miss independent who doesn't need a man, does Alf have Tommy's surname?
I guess it makes sense that she picks and chooses the parts of feminism / duck the patriarchy to fit her narrative. But I thought she'd be all over Alf taking her surname.
Its also an absolute ballache to travel with kids when they have a different surname. When I travelled to visit family, I needed to take their birth certificate along with a letter from their dad that said I was able to travel with them.