I don’t fully agree that she should disregard Oscar because he isn’t her responsibility. Someone has to look out for his well-being, and sometimes that isn’t your blood family.
But she’s definitely doing the right thing naming and shaming her with pictures. That can be a way of keeping him safe, nothing being kept in the dark.
more please Chelsea.
Didn't say she has to disregard Oscar. But she's nothing to do with Oscar and unfortunately never will be. Legally. She can't fight for a child that isn't hers. If ash doesn't want Chelsea to see Oscar, that's Ashs rightful decision. Even if it's the wrong one. And that's the only thing Ash had against Chelsea now, is stopping and starting a relationship between her and Oscar whenever she feels like it, to get her own way, to keep people quiet, to feel like the alpha. She'll always do it. Because she's a narcissist and doesn't care about those kids.
Just like Ash is probably the reason the dad has no relationship with his kids. He probably tried and tried and tried and ash kept saying no, and told the kids its all down to their dad, instead of herself. And now those kids have this poisonous image of their dad in their heads thanks to their own mam, he's probably waiting til they're old enough to not need Ash's permission, to reach out. To protect his own and their mental health.
So to protect Chelseas own mental health maybe right now the right thing to do IS let it be known she's there for Oscar, but when he's old enough to leave his mams handcuffs. She'll be waiting. There's not alot else she can do.
She should clear her name and she shouldn't allow 2 bullies to try and ruin her life. Just to protect a child that, legally, is nothing to do with her. Even if that's harsh. The second she uploaded those stories today, Oscars gone and Ash will make sure of that. She will not allow that relationship to continue. Chelsea knows all this though. She's not stupid. I can see Chelsea agreeing with everything I've just said.
It's very hard to get words to come out the way I mean on a thread anyway.