She seems to have a fear of them kicking off, which I know who wants to deal with a screaming kid. But it’s normal to an extent for them to throw a strop at that age if they are not allowed something. She seems to do very adult like things with them. They are often dressed like mini adults. The 3 hour nap baffles me, how does she get him down at night. Like I’ve said before one thing she never shows is there bed time routine and I think that’s because they go to bed pretty late, and they are probably put in there rooms with a movie. I just don’t get Fra n Andy are they both incapable of looking after the kids with out the maws, why do we never hear the kids are away out with there dads? It’s pretty normal practice in my house for my husband to take both or one out alone even if it’s just to get some shopping in.