I remember being quite shocked she kept going to NY at the weekend. I’m all for going away without the children (our children are the same age), but I would feel super guilty if I spent all that money and they hadn’t had a holiday. That comes first and if there is available money, then I’ll book a weekend without them. I’m sure that won’t be happening this year as everything is just too expensive. I hope I don’t sound preachy, but that seems normal.