In her own words yesterday, she says marriage is just a certificate (kind of true) and she’s just looking forward to having a party with her people. So as we all had gathered, the wedding is just about her wearing expensive frocks and having a blank cheque for seeking attention for months.In my experience men get to an age where they feel they should “check the box” and get married. May or may not be undying love. There are social pressures as well. I think that’s where Paddy is. Easier to just do it and move on.
In Brazil there is a belief that the longer you date, the shorter the marriage. They’ve been together SEVEN years. Now I know we had Covid and she waited 18 months for a wedding but remember that story when she said to him “what happens in June” and he answered (off camera) “the British open” and she made that face? Then said oh that’s so funny.
That’s the stuff I’m talking about. Or today when she made a comment about him partying hard. Doesn’t bode well. I am an observer and wish her no ill, but do wonder if this is a healthy relationship.
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I can’t remember where I read it but there was a study on the optimal duration to date Vs length of marriage with interesting stats and it was found to be 4.5 years or something for the longest marriages. The comments section online for that article made for interesting reading tooIn my experience men get to an age where they feel they should “check the box” and get married. May or may not be undying love. There are social pressures as well. I think that’s where Paddy is. Easier to just do it and move on.
In Brazil there is a belief that the longer you date, the shorter the marriage. They’ve been together SEVEN years. Now I know we had Covid and she waited 18 months for a wedding but remember that story when she said to him “what happens in June” and he answered (off camera) “the British open” and she made that face? Then said oh that’s so funny.
That’s the stuff I’m talking about. Or today when she made a comment about him partying hard. Doesn’t bode well. I am an observer and wish her no ill, but do wonder if this is a healthy relationship.
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