Okay stick with me here but I think as humans we all grow and "she's our old selves" somewhat and I get that throwing some stuff out can be therapeutic but honestly you can't just delete and erase your life history just because it doesn't fit with who you are now ... I mean I know there's stuff people wouodnt like to remember but I sometimes come across my past letters, pictures and just bits and bobs that have been stored away and it's nice to look back on! She wouldn't have been who she is now without any of that so why the need to throw it away. It's a bit wasteful