He has a huge inferiority complex knowing that he doesnāt really have a job or go off and work hard every day in a traditional sense that he obviously associates with manhood or adulthood. It clearly bothers him that he knows there are no real demands for him or his time, there is no skill he has that he is giving to anyoneā and so he recites these fake things that he thinks āWorking Man/Dadā would say even though itās so obvious that he would have all the time in the world for his child.So in Alfie's video he says hes ready to become a father because hes sorted out the basement and the paperworkthe thing that scares him most is being too caught up in work and missing his daughter growing up. Ok but what about your child becoming ill? do they think they are above that happening?
In fact, a lot of people would love to say, āmy job is flexible and Iām so lucky Iāll be able to give all the time needed to my child and can focus on my familyā, but he so badly needs his ego soothed and the validation.
If he was such an overworker he wouldnāt have taken āpaternity leaveā before his daughter was even born lmao.
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. This was a real opportunity for them to donate any items they were gifted, because of the current situation, and say to people āwe can afford to buy everything we want so anything gifted will be passed on to someone who needs it more than we doā but they havenāt! This is the one thing that pisses me off the most about these two! 
