Your tips on how to look more Groomed, Glamorous or Polished #8

[not_influenced]

I'd nearly delete my Instagram and just follow this thread!!!the leggings, the Hoody's and now I'm learning Look Fantastic have a beauty box??!!! Have I been living under a rock?!?!

 

[Rubberdungeon]

I'm sorry if this one has been mentioned a thousand times. Does anyone have any recommendations for puffyness under eyes? No matter how much sleep I get or water I drink the puffiness will not leave

I saw this elsewhere!

Apply a cold compress or chilled cucumber slices to your closed eyelids for 10-15 minutes. Cold helps constrict blood vessels and reduce puffiness.

Use eye creams containing ingredients like caffeine, hyaluronic acid, or peptides, which can help reduce puffiness and hydrate the skin.

Sleeping with your head slightly elevated can prevent fluid buildup around your eyes.

Allergies can cause eye puffiness. Identify and avoid allergens, and consider over-the-counter antihistamines if needed. High salt intake can lead to water retention, so reduce your sodium intake.

Use your ring finger to gently massage the area around your eyes in a circular motion to encourage lymphatic drainage.

Apply cool, used tea bags (chamomile or green tea) to your closed eyes for a few minutes. The tannins can help reduce puffiness.

 

[AlwaysSummer]

Dudes I have to spill this out somewhere and I’ve chosen here. Apologies.

I suffer from body dysmorphia and I’m so distracted by it lately that I don’t know how to deal with it. My hair bothers me so much- it’s naturally curly but I feel that it looks ugly in its natural state. It’s so curly though that it won’t go straight. I try having a fringe but it goes curly at the slightest hint of damp. I constantly fret that I look hideous. I keep faffing with my hair trying this and that and am convinced I look bloody awful constantly.

I don’t know how to deal with all this. It’s taken over my entire brain. I just got out a photo album to flip through and found a picture of me aged 5 with my hair all curly and I know it sounds daft but I don’t want to let that little girl down. She looks cute- why do I hate my appearance so much? (I know why- my family,but that’s a whole other story.).

Anyway. Sorry for the derail. Just needed to say it somewhere because it’s really hard to articulate this in real life.

Just a gentle question- can I ask why you want your hair to go straight when it’s naturally curly? I’m asking mostly because I’ve struggled so much with my hair for the last few years and trying to straighten/ style it in order to keep it smooth until I had enough and accepted that it’s in fact wavy/curly. Since embracing its natural texture and yes, some frizz, I’ve felt more myself than ever.

There is a general notion that only smooth/ straight hair looks proper, when in fact there are plenty of hair textures in between which are just as pretty. One practical tip is to grow out the fringe as this might make it easier to get used to the beauty of your natural hair texture. Learning a few basic tips around casting your curls for definition will be useful too.

 

[Johnson1901]

My tip to looking more glamorous is……this product I’m recommending

 

[Scorpihoe]

*sighs* right let’s look on sisters and seekers then

honestly though I’m so easily influenced, my family call me a marketers dream

 

[Tanne1999]

My nail appointment and my facial got cancelled today. The facial I’m not too mad about as it was done first thing this morning, but the nails I got all the way to the salon and was told the nail tech isn’t in today!

 

[doodlebug]

I’d reschedule and make it clear 50 mins to too long to wait.

I’ve travelled an hour here - and won’t be able to get another appointment for a few weeks - they’re always fully booked.

They charge a £20 late fee for clients after 15 mins…and after 30 your appointment is cancelled. I reckon I’m entitled to some sort of discount?

 

[Lollypad]

i’m wondering if anyone in here can offer me some advice, i’ve recently started a new job that’s full-time working from home 9-5, i’m struggling to keep myself feeling motivated to get up and get ready each morning but i really want to feel put together, just seeing if anyone might’ve been in the same boat or has any tips/tricks on how to try and keep on top of feeling put together and ready for each day, as i feel like it’s getting to a point where i’m just rolling out of bed and working in my pyjamas

It took me a long time to get used to working from home and finding the routine that worked for me but the things I’ve found that helped:
- exercise in the morning - I can’t just roll out of bed and start work, I feel groggy and like I’m literally just working all day. If I exercise in the morning (even though that means losing a couple of hours of sleep) I feel super refreshed and ready for the day, plus I sleep better in the evenings.
- drinking 750mls of water before I start work - it’s just a good habit to get in to and gets me on track for drinking enough water.
- I always do my brows, I don’t necessarily have a full face of make up for working from home, but I will neaten/fill my brows to feel a bit more put together.

 

[peachesandcreamz]

I think those products are usually a bit gimmicky! I've gone with a local nurse who specialises in ear wax removal, they use "microsuction and manual instrumentation". Think it's about £65 for both ears which is worth every penny to not have to deal with blocked ears regularly!

My appointment is on Monday so will report back after

I'm back and can confirm I am hearing in 8k surround sound!!!!

No pain at all (just sounds exactly like wax getting sucked out your ear loudly!), all came out easily after using the Earol for 2 days beforehand.

Looking forward to lying on either ear in bed tonight without going deaf

 

[Chocolategoggler]

I'm currently going through my Tattle bookmarks (due to being in pain as my mattress is done for so trying to find the bookmarked mattress recommendations for a bedstead)
Anyway I've come across something I bookmarked about a perfume from a fellow Tattler that sounds intriguing so am posting this nugget for you:-
"I use Molecule 1 for daily use because it is a light fragrance but not everyone can smell it not even the wearer. It has one single ingredient of Iso E Super, the chemistry hi of which adapts to the wearer and is different for every person. Apparently it is described as less of an aroma and more of an effect that lends an indefinable radiance to the wearer (I looked that up) It is true not everyone can smell it but I have had a woman follow me around the opticians, the super market, (obviously not the same woman as that would be weird) trying to track down the scent and everyone has said it was lovely. A bus driver even asked me what I was wearing so he coud buy it for his wife... this is affordable but some perfumes and mens fragrances (don't think they are called aftershaves anymore) are expensive so I will always compliment someone if they smell good, why spend all that money if no one appreciates it?"
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Another tip I bookmarked from a Tattler re psoriasis:-
"expand...Sorry to interrupt the the thread but l had very bad psoriasis too.

The one thing that helped with my scalp was mixing old fashioned Disprin with a bland shampoo/or conditioner and leaving it on your scalp for about 5 or more minutes, it's anti inflammatory and can help a lot.
For skin, l found "Childs Farm" excellent for calming down the flare up, it's about 5 quid from any chemist.
Hope this helps."

 

[Scorpihoe]

@doodlebug omg that is horrific! £20?!? That’s nothing in terms of getting your hair done. I’m so sorry you went through that. They lost a good customer

on a side note, you inspired me to get my hair done today, I tried out a new salon and they were *incredible* honestly I felt like royalty as soon as I walked in. The lady did exactly what I wanted, gave me a complimentary head and neck massage, free samples, sweets, cups of tea…I even purchased this hair mask because they were all so amazing and they had a discount if anyone is near the West Midlands area and wants the name of the salon let me know x

 

[Portoprincess]

I have two questions;

1) how do people know how to dress so stylishly according to their body type? I have Tried those quizzes and no dice. I have had 2 little girls now and my body is so different! Only feel comfy in tracksuits or Adanola leggings and a long tshirt how the hell do I figure it out without paying for a stylist

2) how do some people always have perfect hair? I have to wash mine every day (don’t try to convince me otherwise ) think it’s a sensory thing. But my hair is super thick and Flicky and takes ages to dry. Usually shoved up in a clip.

I am basically Julia from motherland but I’d like to be a little bit more like Amanda

 

[EllsBellsWells]

I point blank refuse to give Dyson any money. They’ve tried to fuck the UK economy over too many times and they spend millions on unscrupulous money grabbing influencers.

plus there’s far better and far cheaper products on the market.

 

[doodlebug]

So she’s still not here and hour later and they’ve got who I’m sure is a trainee to start me off. She’s asking a lot of questions to other girl of what to do and how to do it…

This is my third time at this salon. Based on what I know, they won’t offer a discount, I will have to ask. I hate confrontation as well so I know it’ll be really awkward. I know I should take my custom elsewhere after this but it’s so hard to find a good salon for my hair type!

 

[Omghon]

Lovall have added winter, fleece lined leggings to their website

 

[Johnson1901]

Right all, it’s payday and I want to buy myself something nice. Max £50ish, I’m preggo so everything is a struggle/angering me at the moment, love a cosy vibe. Can be edible, wearable, whatever. Thoughts would be appreciated

Fluffy maternity pjs
Heated blanket
Thick warm slipper socks
Hot chocolate stirrers
Oodie (or cheaper version)
Nice warm dressing gown
Comfy maternity lounge wear
Heated foot warmer (I’ve got one, amazing!)
Options white hot choc powder
New candles
New coat
Hat and scarf set
New winter footwear
Onsie
Hot water bottle
Biscuits selection for cosy night in
Tubs of chocs

 

[House of Tea]

Clean hair, well conditioned and styled. Subtle make up, fixed in place with a setting spray. A squirt of perfume - not sweet or cloying, something classy. Smooth skin - courtesy of a body scrub and good body cream. Groomed nails (not long, prefer sqoval shaped, buffed or season appropriate polish, not chipped) - I don’t like long nail or gimmicky ones. Planned outfit, like others, from the night before. Good accessories. Clean shoes. Ironed clothes. Stand up straight, no slouching. Fix in your head someone who seems to have got their stuff together, and do the same - not copy, just look to see what works and then add in your take on it.

 

[mindlessness]

Love products like the Dior Nail Glow @wishiniwasskinny ! I stopped getting shellac a while ago and find the sheer glow really helps enhance my natural nail. I've recently picked up one from nails Inc from Superdrug to try (called The 'Glowing my way glow-enhancing nail perfector polish' per their website - what a mouthful!) Shall report back to tattle if I like it.
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i’m wondering if anyone in here can offer me some advice, i’ve recently started a new job that’s full-time working from home 9-5, i’m struggling to keep myself feeling motivated to get up and get ready each morning but i really want to feel put together, just seeing if anyone might’ve been in the same boat or has any tips/tricks on how to try and keep on top of feeling put together and ready for each day, as i feel like it’s getting to a point where i’m just rolling out of bed and working in my pyjamas

Congrats on the new job!

It probably is a bit like being a school kid again but I find planning what I'm going to wear (even if it is just a comfy knit set to WFH) the night before really helps. On that note, I definitely think getting some knit sets (H&M always has a few if you don't want to spend much) to wear - they'll feel like PJs but look just a bit smarter on a Teams or Zoom call.

I echo the others re getting outside before work. For a walk or even just to drink a cup of tea or coffee or whatever. In the winter sometimes I just open some windows if I am being lazy. The fresh air always helps me in the morning (even if it is still dark!)

Also some drops of fake tan in your moisturiser (Tan Luxe and Isle of Paradise both do this sort of product) could help you look a bit more put together even if you don't put any other makeup on. Especially in the winter months it helps me look a bit less blah with just a spot of glow!

 

[Mamacita]

I genuinely hate jeans. Never wear them, I rarely find them flattering on anyone and they're also so uncomfortable. But that means I often struggle with what to wear. Usually end up wearing either leggings, dresses, or trousers that aren't jeans but it so difficult to find good ones.

 

[House of Tea]

I would rather just go out to a panto for Xmas or a meal but my husband insists on us exchanging presents. Stuff we don’t need. We are going to the panto at the Palladium with Julian Clary - we go every year. The tickets are bloody expensive and that is enough for me. But now going to have to think what he can get me and vice versa. Pointless waste of time and money. And we are hoping to move so money we need for other stuff. As I type the more I am resolved I am not doing it.