Our current Queen and her father before, both could be seen as the boring ones, the safe pair of hands, and both made excellent monarchs. The Monarch is to be seen and not heard, is supposed to not cause drama and not have strong opinions, it’s exactly what you want in a future King to be quite honest.
Compared to Edward VIII, Princess Margaret and Harry, the more showier royals, more charismatic and more charming etc. Edward nearly brought down the monarchy, Margaret would’ve been wholly ill-suited to Monarchy, much preferred her partying and having fun, as would Harry.
The quiet, boring Royals make the best Monarchs.
The operative word here is "
seen as the boring ones". It's just a smokescreen of an image, not necessarily relating to the truth. I have read George VI cheated on Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon with her blessing, I don't know how true that is though.
I lost my thoughts a bit during my previous post (last page), because when I wrote all that about Harry and Charles, I forgot to add that William (and Kate!) partied just as hard and as much as Harry back in the day, there are pictures of William peeing in public (and his Willy in full sight!) and articles on Kate drinking Harry (and I think Will as well) under the table. Kate as girlfriend wasn't all that important to protect and prop-up (image wise), but Will as heir is and his image is being kept squeaky clean, incl that "boring (dad)" persona and "steady Will" in the past.
The truth is Will was as wild as Harry, but Harry is just the spare and a welcome distraction from Will's antics and a nice prop for "good dad" Charles. (Don't get this wrong, Charles isn't a terrible parent at all, but regardless whether he is or isn't a great dad, he needs a "great dad" image and Harry was used for that by Charles's PR; Liz II and Phil weren't parents of the year either, for many reasons).
They all have dirt sticking to them and their images don't reflect their personalities or reality, but their status and line in the pecking order.
As awful as Meghan is (truly), Meghan is the best thing to have happened to Kate. She got an image boost by magnanimous proportions and in spite of people thinking how "Kate has never put a foot wrong", Kate's missteps during diplomatic tours have been of epic proportions and worse than any "omg-Meghan-walked-in-front-of-Harry" (Harry motions to M sometimes to go ahead to be fair) could ever be (receptions in Malaysia where Kate came in sky high heels and low cut cleavage even though being specifically asked not to wear any heels and dress modestly; her skirt blowing up on arrivals, departures and at war memorials(!!) showing her bare bottom more times than anyone could count, literally ignoring other royals and heads-of-state (king Felipe of Spain, Felipe looked to shake hands but Will and Kate ignored him) and and and....!).