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I never really knew how prevalent sexual assault was until this thread, I’m so sorry you’ve all had it happen to you!
about 20 years ago I was in my late teens, just started going to the local pub (lot busier back then, everyone jammed shoulder to shoulder) and obviously being a new face the creepy old guys took interest and surrounded me as I went to order a drink at the bar. I don’t know which, but one of them put their hand between my legs and they all laughed. It was so horrible and scary and I had no idea how to react.
about 20 years ago I was in my late teens, just started going to the local pub (lot busier back then, everyone jammed shoulder to shoulder) and obviously being a new face the creepy old guys took interest and surrounded me as I went to order a drink at the bar. I don’t know which, but one of them put their hand between my legs and they all laughed. It was so horrible and scary and I had no idea how to react.
Cory McKeague
When I was 11 I used to go on chat rooms, I frequented one which was linked to a local online radio station and got chatting to one of the DJ’s. I told him I was older than I was, I think I said I was 18 so that he would not stop talking to me 
, we swapped phone numbers and was texting for a while, it was all innocent on my side and it was just general chit chat until one day he rang me, now he MUST have figured I was way younger than I said hearing my voice, but he was very suggestive on the call, I didn’t understand at the time half of the sexual things he was suggesting, I just laughed and put the phone down figuring I made a huge mistake lying about my age and thought I’d get into trouble somehow (naive), He didn’t stop there though, he continued a barrage of filthy texts, so many so that my parents were suspicious at why my phone was constantly going off..
They went through everything and was truly horrified. The worst thing is my Dad knew this man from work, I felt so guilty and awful I still do now, like it was my fault for lying about my age... needless to say said DJ is now on the sex offenders list for pursuing minors.
I feel sick thinking about it.
, we swapped phone numbers and was texting for a while, it was all innocent on my side and it was just general chit chat until one day he rang me, now he MUST have figured I was way younger than I said hearing my voice, but he was very suggestive on the call, I didn’t understand at the time half of the sexual things he was suggesting, I just laughed and put the phone down figuring I made a huge mistake lying about my age and thought I’d get into trouble somehow (naive), He didn’t stop there though, he continued a barrage of filthy texts, so many so that my parents were suspicious at why my phone was constantly going off.. They went through everything and was truly horrified. The worst thing is my Dad knew this man from work, I felt so guilty and awful I still do now, like it was my fault for lying about my age... needless to say said DJ is now on the sex offenders list for pursuing minors.
I feel sick thinking about it.
OMG! I remember that case! Was so chilling! That’s horrible, he was a nut job
I’m the worst at telling stories but, where I grew up l lived within 5 mins of a good group of friends when we got to about age 15/16 (I can’t remember exactly how it started) but one of our friends (il name her R) started saying we could go round to her uncle’s house, he wasn’t her actual uncle jusy her mums creepy bleeping pedalo friend, there were always about 5/6 of us, sometimes there could be up to about 10 of us and we used to go listen to music and get drunk there 
the man was in his late 50s early 60s for sure, he used to put porn on and encourage us to watch it 
as time went on he would say ‘il buy you alcohol if you pose with your top and bra off’ luckily I and a few other girls didn’t do it, but some of the other girls did and he used to take pictures and get them developed (what did the people in the photo shop think 
) he then would put the pictures on his wall, in my gut I always knew it wasn’t right as I used to have to lie to my mum about where I was but as it was R’s ‘uncle’ I thought it was fine, and I think I was too young and naive to know what an actual paedophile was. What is worse is that R’s mum was aware that her daughter and her mates used to go to this old creepy mans house and get drunk and she never once stepped in and tried to prevent it keep happening.
This went on for years and years, and when we turned 18 and could go out we would always go and predrink there he then started to get them to pose completely naked and buy them drugs, I had stopped going round there by then but I used to hear all the stories it only really stopped when one girl got so drunk/high that she ended up having sex with him and then she was completely freaked out by it and it was only then I think all the girls realised just how disgusting this man was 
Now as an adult I know just how bleeping wrong it actually was, I still speak to the girl who introduced us and apparently he used to carry a photo album round of all the naked photos and once showed someone he worked with, that man obviously knew he was a pedalo and reported him to the police, R’s mum helped him burn all the photos he had of the girls and got rid of all his porn honestly shocks me that her Mum would help him get rid of it, the police visited him and nothing ever happened to him.
the man was in his late 50s early 60s for sure, he used to put porn on and encourage us to watch it as time went on he would say ‘il buy you alcohol if you pose with your top and bra off’ luckily I and a few other girls didn’t do it, but some of the other girls did and he used to take pictures and get them developed (what did the people in the photo shop think ) he then would put the pictures on his wall, in my gut I always knew it wasn’t right as I used to have to lie to my mum about where I was but as it was R’s ‘uncle’ I thought it was fine, and I think I was too young and naive to know what an actual paedophile was. What is worse is that R’s mum was aware that her daughter and her mates used to go to this old creepy mans house and get drunk and she never once stepped in and tried to prevent it keep happening.This went on for years and years, and when we turned 18 and could go out we would always go and predrink there
he then started to get them to pose completely naked and buy them drugs, I had stopped going round there by then but I used to hear all the stories it only really stopped when one girl got so drunk/high that she ended up having sex with him and then she was completely freaked out by it and it was only then I think all the girls realised just how disgusting this man was Now as an adult I know just how bleeping wrong it actually was, I still speak to the girl who introduced us and apparently he used to carry a photo album round of all the naked photos and once showed someone he worked with, that man obviously knew he was a pedalo and reported him to the police, R’s mum helped him burn all the photos he had of the girls and got rid of all his porn
honestly shocks me that her Mum would help him get rid of it, the police visited him and nothing ever happened to him.
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So scary. It seems to of happened a lot more and lots of people just brushed it under the carpet...something happened to a friend of mine. She told her mum and her mum didn’t believe her !!!I’m the worst at telling stories but, where I grew up l lived within 5 mins of my a good group of friends when we got to about age 15/16 (I can’t remember exactly how it started) but one of our friends (il name her R) started saying we could go round to her uncle’s house, he wasn’t her actual uncle jusy her mums creepy bleeping weirdo friend, there was always about 5/6 of us, sometimes there could be up to about 10 of us and we used to go listen to music and get drunk there
This went on for years and years, and when we turned 18 and could go out we would always go and predrink there
Now as an adult I know just how bleeping wrong it actually was, I still speak to the girl who introduced us and apparently he used to carry a photo album round of all the naked photos and once showed someone he worked with, that man obviously knew he was a weirdo and reported him to the police, R’s mum helped him burn all the photos he had of the girls and got rid of all his porn
Scary reads, I was in Spain back when I was 17 on our first girls holiday about 12 of us all the same age for two weeks. One night I came back early one night on my own tried to sleep but could hear banging outside our apartment, stupidly I shouted shut the f up, a skinhead thug looks up shouts 3 across 3 up in coming to get you! He had a huge metal pole & got past security I turn all the lights off & hide push stuff to the door & he starts banging the door with his poke, I’m just crying no phones in the room & no mobiles back then. After 10 minutes security take him away. It was so scary!
Stayed at my friends house not long after her grandad had passed away and i felt someone hug me as i was falling to sleep! Their was noone in the room but me and my friend!
I was once waiting at the bus stop on the way home from school and felt someone standing to close to me! I turned round and there was a man that close he was basically touching me showing me his full glory! I never told anyone because I was so shocked/scared! Looking back telling someone is exactly what I should have done!
From this thread, I've gathered women are so vulnerable and men can be bleeping monsters. I already knew this before but wow shocked by some of the stories on here.
Getting the tube everyday to/from work, I’ve experienced a few nasty stories. The worst is rush hour in a busy carriage - like sardines in a can, literally cannot move. On day, everyone is squashed in and still apart from this guy behind me who had cut a hole in his coat pocket and is going at it with his hand... against my backside. Honestly, sometimes I wonder why I’ve brought kids into this world. These stories make me feel incredibly sad 
Unfortunately I read in a magazine last year that this is quite common on the Tube and they had to get in specially trained observer undercover police because men would do what you said above or 'bump into' a woman and grope or rub against her inappropriately.Getting the tube everyday to/from work, I’ve experienced a few nasty stories. The worst is rush hour in a busy carriage - like sardines in a can, literally cannot move. On day, everyone is squashed in and still apart from this guy behind me who had cut a hole in his coat pocket and is going at it with his hand... against my backside. Honestly, sometimes I wonder why I’ve brought kids into this world. These stories make me feel incredibly sad
So awful isn’t it. I’ve seen so many inappropriate things on the tube, I was way too young to see some of them. Makes my skin crawl...
I have many 1 was when I was 11 and a girl moved to our tiny Irish village she was abit rough and her mum would bring her to the pub let her smoke and drink and I remember she used to text this guy who was in his 20s. Anyway my family event was in a pub and she was there and she asked me to come outside with her and go to this field with her and this man. I seen him there and then my mum came out and went crazy and banned me from ever seeing her. At the time I was so mad but now it's mental to think what could have happened. Also this guy on Instagram used to message me all the time begging for a date I eventually agreed as it was NYE and I felt sorry for him he was by himself so invited him out with all my friends. He arrived looked 20 years older then his pics and I agreed to 1 drink with him as felt bad. Well I don't know what he put in my drink but I don't remember much of the night. Just remember him taking me in a taxi back to my house him taking me down an allyway and holding me up and then I started vomitting and thank god I peed myself. He left me there and stole my bag. I'm positive I would have been raped had I not peed myself
Wow this thread is terrifying and so sad that this many of us have experienced these awful things.
Mine aren’t nearly as bad as some listed above but here goes...
- when I was about 12 I was walking home from being at a friends house. It was summer so it was light and it was perhaps 6:30/7pm. An old man, likely in his 60s/70s walked past me with his young grandson. His grandson was really cute and maybe about 3 or 4 years old. I don’t talk to strangers but I think the little boy said hello to me or something like that so I said hello to him and gave the sweet old grandad a smile. We exchanged pleasantries and as I said goodbye to continue home he reached out, squeezed my bum
and said ‘you’ve got a lovely arse’. Then, normal as anything, carried on his merry way. It really stuck with me - as a woman I’m sure we can all agree there have been times where sadly we have received unwanted attention - someone grabbing at us in the dark in a club. But this was different... because he was a grandad with a young kid it really disarmed me. Very weird. I never told anyone 
but can now see it’s assault...
- this totally isn’t related to any of the weird stories but it something really strange that happened to me a couple of years ago.
I was staying with my partners parents over the festive season. I’ve visited before, many times, and know the area well but wouldn’t exactly say I’m familiar with the neighbours. We were all having a family meal when I went upstairs to the toilet for a wee. Not sure why, but I wandered into my partners old bedroom and decided to have a look out of the window. The window faces the street. It was light outside, probably about 2pm on a Sunday. I remember clear as day that I glanced across the street and saw a black Audi that for some reason I was drawn to. As I say, I don’t know all the neighbours, nor their cars, so I had no reason to feel weird but I just couldn’t put my finger on the feeling that this black Audi was giving me. For some unknown reason I had the urge to write down the number plate - totally bizarre thing to do and not something I do as a hobby
Anyway, I went back downstairs to finish eating dinner and didn’t think anything else of it. Midway through the meal we hear a loud alarm noise and my partners dad went outside to see where it was coming from. The neighbours down the road had been burgled in the middle of the day and my partners dad was the one who discovered it. They have CCTV and when we watched back we could see clearly it was the driver(s) of the black Audi. The number plate was not visible on the cctv due to a blind spot so I then had to explain to the police why I’d written down the number plate so weird and sadly didn’t lead to anything as just a getaway car but proof that you should trust your instincts!!! 
Mine aren’t nearly as bad as some listed above but here goes...
- when I was about 12 I was walking home from being at a friends house. It was summer so it was light and it was perhaps 6:30/7pm. An old man, likely in his 60s/70s walked past me with his young grandson. His grandson was really cute and maybe about 3 or 4 years old. I don’t talk to strangers but I think the little boy said hello to me or something like that so I said hello to him and gave the sweet old grandad a smile. We exchanged pleasantries and as I said goodbye to continue home he reached out, squeezed my bum
and said ‘you’ve got a lovely arse’. Then, normal as anything, carried on his merry way. It really stuck with me - as a woman I’m sure we can all agree there have been times where sadly we have received unwanted attention - someone grabbing at us in the dark in a club. But this was different... because he was a grandad with a young kid it really disarmed me. Very weird. I never told anyone but can now see it’s assault... - this totally isn’t related to any of the weird stories but it something really strange that happened to me a couple of years ago.
I was staying with my partners parents over the festive season. I’ve visited before, many times, and know the area well but wouldn’t exactly say I’m familiar with the neighbours. We were all having a family meal when I went upstairs to the toilet for a wee. Not sure why, but I wandered into my partners old bedroom and decided to have a look out of the window. The window faces the street. It was light outside, probably about 2pm on a Sunday. I remember clear as day that I glanced across the street and saw a black Audi that for some reason I was drawn to. As I say, I don’t know all the neighbours, nor their cars, so I had no reason to feel weird but I just couldn’t put my finger on the feeling that this black Audi was giving me. For some unknown reason I had the urge to write down the number plate - totally bizarre thing to do and not something I do as a hobby
Anyway, I went back downstairs to finish eating dinner and didn’t think anything else of it. Midway through the meal we hear a loud alarm noise and my partners dad went outside to see where it was coming from. The neighbours down the road had been burgled in the middle of the day and my partners dad was the one who discovered it. They have CCTV and when we watched back we could see clearly it was the driver(s) of the black Audi. The number plate was not visible on the cctv due to a blind spot so I then had to explain to the police why I’d written down the number plate
so weird and sadly didn’t lead to anything as just a getaway car but proof that you should trust your instincts!!! ahhhh that’s my home town to. I remember this.Bloody hell!! X
** Sorry for spelling mistakes. Its 6.15 and Im in work since 4pm yesterday **
I got an anonymous letter saying my ex was stalking me in 2016. I knew when he saw me he kept going out of his way to talk to me but this scared the feicin life out of me.
I was in Tesco a few days after and was still freaking out and there he was. He followed me around the shop and I was so scared to go to the car. I rang my dad's best mate cause I knew if I needed someone punched he would do it.
He punched him in the end.
Turns out my ex had 2 girls on the go and was stalking me. He was on security cameras in my work place in all 3 car parks. And loads of other tit.
He was abusive and cheated on me and we brokeup and he bleeping did all that to me !!
A guy in work apparently fancied me for ages and when he found out I was single a few years ago he started full on flirting with me. I was chatting to an elderly patient and she said to me the guy who keeps looking over my shoulder is giving her the creeps basically. Realised everytime I used my tablet he was looking at it and found out he would look up the patients name on my screen. He would then go to the ward said patient was on before I left the other ward so I'd keep "bumping" into him. He was a cleaner and the other cleaners and nursing staff where complaining he kept disappearing.
A week later I was the bio chemistry lab for 4 days cause I wanted to study something. He somehow got up there for work. It was late at night around 8pm. So it was him cleaning the floors and lab loos etc, me, 4/5 scientists between bio and haemo.
I went into the women's toilet. It has a loo, sink and Like 12 lockers in there. I went to the loo and came out and he was there. He lifted me up and pinned me against the locker. Well I never screamed so loud. I wacked my head off the door.
Unknown to me my best friend was in work in his office directly across from the loo.
He's 6'4 and came in and pinned yer man to the floor. We bleeped security and he was fired soon after.
Never went back to the loos or that hospital since. They fired him but it took a lot of pushing from me and my best friend to get it done. Also turned out I was the second woman he did this too.
A patient once picked me up and took me into his room. Cause of my job I initially had to remain calm cause of his MH illness but ended up having to scream for my life cause his bedroom was on a new wing with massive doors and no one was around.
He told me he had his eyes on me and that he always asked for the 6 foot pretty one to do his consultations
Just as we entered his room and im kicking and screaming ( this guy was a 6 foot 8 Irish German and was terrifying ) a patient from the room next door came in and went mental at him.
I was left with scratches all over me. I had broken my arm months previous and my arm after that was in bits for months. He squeezed it so much the pain was almost as bad as when I broke it. I remember screaming for them to take it off when I was seen too !!!
It was terrifying I was sent to oc health and was off for a few weeks after((
Also paranormal wise I think I've seen a ufo but that can't be true lol.
I remember watching Bowie music videos introducing my sister to his older stuff and he died 2 days later which is still odd. He will always be my fave.
**I got an anonymous letter saying my ex was stalking me in 2016. I knew when he saw me he kept going out of his way to talk to me but this scared the feicin life out of me.
I was in Tesco a few days after and was still freaking out and there he was. He followed me around the shop and I was so scared to go to the car. I rang my dad's best mate cause I knew if I needed someone punched he would do it.
He punched him in the end.
Turns out my ex had 2 girls on the go and was stalking me. He was on security cameras in my work place in all 3 car parks. And loads of other tit.
He was abusive and cheated on me and we brokeup and he bleeping did all that to me !!
A guy in work apparently fancied me for ages and when he found out I was single a few years ago he started full on flirting with me. I was chatting to an elderly patient and she said to me the guy who keeps looking over my shoulder is giving her the creeps basically. Realised everytime I used my tablet he was looking at it and found out he would look up the patients name on my screen. He would then go to the ward said patient was on before I left the other ward so I'd keep "bumping" into him. He was a cleaner and the other cleaners and nursing staff where complaining he kept disappearing.
A week later I was the bio chemistry lab for 4 days cause I wanted to study something. He somehow got up there for work. It was late at night around 8pm. So it was him cleaning the floors and lab loos etc, me, 4/5 scientists between bio and haemo.
I went into the women's toilet. It has a loo, sink and Like 12 lockers in there. I went to the loo and came out and he was there. He lifted me up and pinned me against the locker. Well I never screamed so loud. I wacked my head off the door.
Unknown to me my best friend was in work in his office directly across from the loo.
He's 6'4 and came in and pinned yer man to the floor. We bleeped security and he was fired soon after.
Never went back to the loos or that hospital since. They fired him but it took a lot of pushing from me and my best friend to get it done. Also turned out I was the second woman he did this too.
A patient once picked me up and took me into his room. Cause of my job I initially had to remain calm cause of his MH illness but ended up having to scream for my life cause his bedroom was on a new wing with massive doors and no one was around.
He told me he had his eyes on me and that he always asked for the 6 foot pretty one to do his consultations
Just as we entered his room and im kicking and screaming ( this guy was a 6 foot 8 Irish German and was terrifying ) a patient from the room next door came in and went mental at him.
I was left with scratches all over me. I had broken my arm months previous and my arm after that was in bits for months. He squeezed it so much the pain was almost as bad as when I broke it. I remember screaming for them to take it off when I was seen too !!!
It was terrifying I was sent to oc health and was off for a few weeks after
(( Also paranormal wise I think I've seen a ufo but that can't be true lol.
I remember watching Bowie music videos introducing my sister to his older stuff and he died 2 days later which is still odd. He will always be my fave.
Christ ok I am wrecked and need to leave work lol. Second story was the door he pushed me against and I wacked my head and I didn't go back to the lab not the loos lol. I actually only went back for one week after I was signed off for a few weeks. Then I left and never went back there.** Sorry for spelling mistakes. Its 6.15 and Im in work since 4pm yesterday
I got an anonymous letter saying my ex was stalking me in 2016. I knew when he saw me he kept going out of his way to talk to me but this scared the feicin life out of me.
I was in Tesco a few days after and was still freaking out and there he was. He followed me around the shop and I was so scared to go to the car. I rang my dad's best mate cause I knew if I needed someone punched he would do it.
He punched him in the end.
Turns out my ex had 2 girls on the go and was stalking me. He was on security cameras in my work place in all 3 car parks. And loads of other tit.
He was abusive and cheated on me and we brokeup and he bleeping did all that to me !!
A guy in work apparently fancied me for ages and when he found out I was single a few years ago he started full on flirting with me. I was chatting to an elderly patient and she said to me the guy who keeps looking over my shoulder is giving her the creeps basically. Realised everytime I used my tablet he was looking at it and found out he would look up the patients name on my screen. He would then go to the ward said patient was on before I left the other ward so I'd keep "bumping" into him. He was a cleaner and the other cleaners and nursing staff where complaining he kept disappearing.
A week later I was the bio chemistry lab for 4 days cause I wanted to study something. He somehow got up there for work. It was late at night around 8pm. So it was him cleaning the floors and lab loos etc, me, 4/5 scientists between bio and haemo.
I went into the women's toilet. It has a loo, sink and Like 12 lockers in there. I went to the loo and came out and he was there. He lifted me up and pinned me against the locker. Well I never screamed so loud. I wacked my head off the door.
Unknown to me my best friend was in work in his office directly across from the loo.
He's 6'4 and came in and pinned yer man to the floor. We bleeped security and he was fired soon after.
Never went back to the loos or that hospital since. They fired him but it took a lot of pushing from me and my best friend to get it done. Also turned out I was the second woman he did this too.
A patient once picked me up and took me into his room. Cause of my job I initially had to remain calm cause of his MH illness but ended up having to scream for my life cause his bedroom was on a new wing with massive doors and no one was around.
He told me he had his eyes on me and that he always asked for the 6 foot pretty one to do his consultations
Just as we entered his room and im kicking and screaming ( this guy was a 6 foot 8 Irish German and was terrifying ) a patient from the room next door came in and went mental at him.
I was left with scratches all over me. I had broken my arm months previous and my arm after that was in bits for months. He squeezed it so much the pain was almost as bad as when I broke it. I remember screaming for them to take it off when I was seen too !!!
It was terrifying I was sent to oc health and was off for a few weeks after
Also paranormal wise I think I've seen a ufo but that can't be true lol.
I remember watching Bowie music videos introducing my sister to his older stuff and he died 2 days later which is still odd. He will always be my fave.
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I feel sick now knowing I've those stories and now many more are coming back to me.
Seeing men masturbate in Dublin city, on the tube in London, in my local park- seen it all.
The second hospital where I was attacked did a survey thing on harassment and 93% of the female staff who filed it out said they had experienced sexual harassment in the work place and I think it was like 70% where staff not patients / visitors
Just remembered when I was a kid saw a guy get arrested in Disney world for exposing himself!!
I hate how every women we know will have more than one story of this tit happening
Seeing men masturbate in Dublin city, on the tube in London, in my local park- seen it all.
The second hospital where I was attacked did a survey thing on harassment and 93% of the female staff who filed it out said they had experienced sexual harassment in the work place and I think it was like 70% where staff not patients / visitors
Just remembered when I was a kid saw a guy get arrested in Disney world for exposing himself!!
I hate how every women we know will have more than one story of this tit happening
When I was a kid (maybe 13/14) I was allowed to stay home by myself in the summer holidays. My bedroom window was over a sloped roof and I had slatted blinds. One day I woke up hearing someone at the window, I could see a man through the blinds and assumed it was the window cleaner- rolled over and went back to sleep.
A few hours later, the window cleaner appeared at the downstairs windows- I asked him why he’d done upstairs so much earlier and come back to finish off... yeah you guessed it, it wasn’t him outside my window that morning
To this day I’ve no idea who it was or what he was doing up there. Never told my parents cos I didn’t want to not be allowed to stay at home by myself
A few hours later, the window cleaner appeared at the downstairs windows- I asked him why he’d done upstairs so much earlier and come back to finish off... yeah you guessed it, it wasn’t him outside my window that morning
To this day I’ve no idea who it was or what he was doing up there. Never told my parents cos I didn’t want to not be allowed to stay at home by myself