What's the most creepiest or scariest thing that's ever happened to you?

[Boutros Boutros-Ghali]

Yes that’s the one. Corey.
never been found. The theory is he ended up
In the bin and then crushed to death. And the refuse company didn’t declare the weight of the bin properly, either by error or as some sort of fiddle, but it’s never been proven and they searched the landfill and found nothing, but it was so long after was unlikely they’d find anything. No other explanation for how he got out. It was all covered by cctv. Just wish they could get an answer, no matter what it is

 

[Followtheyellowbrickroad]

Yes that’s the one. Corey.
never been found. The theory is he ended up
In the bin and then crushed to death. And the refuse company didn’t declare the weight of the bin properly, either by error or as some sort of fiddle, but it’s never been proven and they searched the landfill and found nothing, but it was so long after was unlikely they’d find anything. No other explanation for how he got out. It was all covered by cctv. Just wish they could get an answer, no matter what it is

That’s terrible

 

[Apple In My Pie]

This is going to sound awful but I’ve never told a soul until now. I promise I’m not trolling. It is hands down the worst secret I have to keep.

when I was eleven, purely out of curiosity and unfettered internet access, I joined a fetish website. I was very sheltered, no friends, and had no sexual education so very misguidedly thought it would help me understand what sex was (at a time when my friends started to talk about it but my family refused altogether). I never did anything. The website had forums similar to tattle where (in between the porn) you could chat and this was fairly inoffensive. I used to chat there, do stupid forum games. People used to ask me to go on webcam and flash my bits or whatever. I knew this was wrong and refused. Never took part in anything like that Or told anybody who I was - knew they would get in trouble otherwise too. Well, one day a guy appeared in my inbox. He said he saw how he had seen that I liked a certain tv show and started talking to me as if he was that character (if that makes sense - think like he pretended to be Spock. An Obviously fake character, not like a celebrity - I knew he was faking). it went on for months, just chatting or joking about ‘oh hi Spock, beam me up’ etc. well, I turned thirteen and suddenly his attitude changed completely. He started saying I turned him on, if I had ‘big tits to squeeze and *** all over after I give him a bj’ (always sticks in my mind that) sending me videos of him jerking off, asking me what I would do to him if he was naked in my bedroom. Bear in mind I was thirteen, he knew I was thirteen by the way I spoke, and hadn’t really had a clue about sex, hadn’t ever done anything to provoke him. If I ever refused to reply or Said he made me uncomfortable he would get really angry with me and threaten that he was going to track me down and attack me and tell my whole family what I had done. Somehow he found me on Facebook (bear in mind other than my age and name he knew nothing about me) and started threatening me there too that he ‘deserved’ pictures of my private parts for talking to me or ‘deserved’ a BJ. It was honestly awful, I used to cry myself to sleep worrying he was going to kill me! i Can’t remember what pushed me to but I just blocked him one day and deactivated all the accounts he knew me on in a panic. it took me until I was fifteen to have a Proper social media following again and even then I felt sick for years and years thinking he could find me or hurt me.

Even now it makes me feel sick - I hate Myself for doing it in the first place, I was so bloody stupid, I probably deserved at least part of it for being on there in the first place. It has put me off bringing it up because I know people will point fingers at me. It honestly makes me sick to think of what could have happened if I let it escalate even more. I can’t ever tell any of my family about it but I know now to lock down as much of my social media as possible and that when I have a kid they are not ever having unsupervised internet access until at least their twenties

 

[Sassie]

When my father was a child, he grew up on a notoriously rough housing estate in Yorkshire. My Nan always accompanied him in the mornings to the bus stop, to catch his ride to school.

One particular morning they were running late, so he darted out of the house alone. He waited about 30 minutes before realising he’d probably missed the bus. As he started making his way back home, a car with a man and woman pulled up and asked him if he needed a lift somewhere. He jumped at the chance (saving him a thick ear or caning from the headmaster ), and pulled the handle of the back seat door. As he was about to hop in, my Grandpa was turning the corner on his way home from a night shift.

Thankfully, he called my Dad’s name and stopped him from getting in. My Grandpa caught a glimpse of the 2 people driving the car and, right up until the day he died, was 100% convinced it was Ian Brady and Myra Hindley.

 

[memoii11]

This is going to sound awful but I’ve never told a soul until now. I promise I’m not trolling. It is hands down the worst secret I have to keep.

when I was eleven, purely out of curiosity and unfettered internet access, I joined a fetish website. I was very sheltered, no friends, and had no sexual education so very misguidedly thought it would help me understand what sex was (at a time when my friends started to talk about it but my family refused altogether). I never did anything. The website had forums similar to tattle where (in between the porn) you could chat and this was fairly inoffensive. I used to chat there, do stupid forum games. People used to ask me to go on webcam and flash my bits or whatever. I knew this was wrong and refused. Never took part in anything like that Or told anybody who I was - knew they would get in trouble otherwise too. Well, one day a guy appeared in my inbox. He said he saw how he had seen that I liked a certain tv show and started talking to me as if he was that character (if that makes sense - think like he pretended to be Spock. An Obviously fake character, not like a celebrity - I knew he was faking). it went on for months, just chatting or joking about ‘oh hi Spock, beam me up’ etc. well, I turned thirteen and suddenly his attitude changed completely. He started saying I turned him on, if I had ‘big tits to squeeze and *** all over after I give him a bj’ (always sticks in my mind that) sending me videos of him jerking off, asking me what I would do to him if he was naked in my bedroom. Bear in mind I was thirteen, he knew I was thirteen by the way I spoke, and hadn’t really had a clue about sex, hadn’t ever done anything to provoke him. If I ever refused to reply or Said he made me uncomfortable he would get really angry with me and threaten that he was going to track me down and attack me and tell my whole family what I had done. Somehow he found me on Facebook (bear in mind other than my age and name he knew nothing about me) and started threatening me there too that he ‘deserved’ pictures of my private parts for talking to me or ‘deserved’ a BJ. It was honestly awful, I used to cry myself to sleep worrying he was going to kill me! i Can’t remember what pushed me to but I just blocked him one day and deactivated all the accounts he knew me on in a panic. it took me until I was fifteen to have a Proper social media following again and even then I felt sick for years and years thinking he could find me or hurt me.

Even now it makes me feel sick - I hate Myself for doing it in the first place, I was so bloody stupid, I probably deserved at least part of it for being on there in the first place. It has put me off bringing it up because I know people will point fingers at me. It honestly makes me sick to think of what could have happened if I let it escalate even more. I can’t ever tell any of my family about it but I know now to lock down as much of my social media as possible and that when I have a kid they are not ever having unsupervised internet access until at least their twenties

It's not your fault. Don't feel ashamed. He knew your age, he's the one in the wrong. Try not to beat yourself up.

 

[Apple In My Pie]

It's not your fault. Don't feel ashamed. He knew your age, he's the one in the wrong. Try not to beat yourself up.

thank you dont want to derail The thread but it means a lot, it’s something that gives me a lot of shame still.

 

[Justlooking19]

When I was about 13 I was on the bus with my younger sister coming home from school. I had long hair up in a pony tail and as I was sitting there I felt someone tug at it. I turned around and there was a weird looking guy sat there with a pair of scissors and he’d actually cut a lock of my hair. I was freaked out and moved away from him. I was too scared to say anything to him and just remember thinking how weird it was. Fast forward quite a few years and there was a high profile murder in my home town. A mum of two had been murdered in her home and pretty much decapitated. My bloody ran cold when I read in the news that at his trial they said that prior to the murder he had travelled on buses cutting women’s hair and that he’s left some of that hair at the murder scene!!

Here’s the story... https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...urdered-mutilated-mother-Heather-Barnett.html

OMG

 

[memoii11]

thank you dont want to derail The thread but it means a lot, it’s something that gives me a lot of shame still.

I understand, but it really wasn't your fault, you were a child. I hope you can find peace soon

 

[LittleMy]

I remember that case vividly as it was so bizarre the way the guy went around cutting women's hair. The case was reported in detail on BBC South Today, which is my local news channel. He was also responsible for the murder of a teenager in Sicily where he was originally from - not surprised your blood ran cold!


That's so true. I have large boobs and the casual abuse and piss taking I've had to endure over the years from random men is appalling. They seem to think it's funny, but it's not - it's humiliating, frightening and unacceptable. Seems some men have never learnt any empathy or manners. I had a day out at the races with my husband ruined when some oik deliberately rubbed his chest up against my boobs when passing me as I was queuing to place a bet - he then went over to his mates and was pointing and laughing at me. I wanted the ground to swallow me. On another occasion a weirdo followed me into my local shopping mall and groped my bum on the escalators - I whipped round to see who had touched me and he said "sorry it was a mistake"!! bleeping wanker. I practically ran back to my car to drive home as I wanted to be as far away as possible from him. I should have reported him, but I was just so shocked I wasn't thinking straight. I really seem to attract weirdos for some reason.

When I was 19 I was groped by a random guy in a nightclub who had come over to where I was sitting alone when my then boyfriend went to the bar to get us drinks. He put his hand up my skirt. It’s not the first time something like that has happened either, sadly. I will walk with my keys between my knuckles if I’m ever out alone in the dark or near a dodgy area (rare these days, thankfully).

 

[NapQueen]

This thread makes me want to smash the patriarchy harder than ever before.

 

[Sariassong]

This is going to sound awful but I’ve never told a soul until now. I promise I’m not trolling. It is hands down the worst secret I have to keep.

when I was eleven, purely out of curiosity and unfettered internet access, I joined a fetish website. I was very sheltered, no friends, and had no sexual education so very misguidedly thought it would help me understand what sex was (at a time when my friends started to talk about it but my family refused altogether). I never did anything. The website had forums similar to tattle where (in between the porn) you could chat and this was fairly inoffensive. I used to chat there, do stupid forum games. People used to ask me to go on webcam and flash my bits or whatever. I knew this was wrong and refused. Never took part in anything like that Or told anybody who I was - knew they would get in trouble otherwise too. Well, one day a guy appeared in my inbox. He said he saw how he had seen that I liked a certain tv show and started talking to me as if he was that character (if that makes sense - think like he pretended to be Spock. An Obviously fake character, not like a celebrity - I knew he was faking). it went on for months, just chatting or joking about ‘oh hi Spock, beam me up’ etc. well, I turned thirteen and suddenly his attitude changed completely. He started saying I turned him on, if I had ‘big tits to squeeze and *** all over after I give him a bj’ (always sticks in my mind that) sending me videos of him jerking off, asking me what I would do to him if he was naked in my bedroom. Bear in mind I was thirteen, he knew I was thirteen by the way I spoke, and hadn’t really had a clue about sex, hadn’t ever done anything to provoke him. If I ever refused to reply or Said he made me uncomfortable he would get really angry with me and threaten that he was going to track me down and attack me and tell my whole family what I had done. Somehow he found me on Facebook (bear in mind other than my age and name he knew nothing about me) and started threatening me there too that he ‘deserved’ pictures of my private parts for talking to me or ‘deserved’ a BJ. It was honestly awful, I used to cry myself to sleep worrying he was going to kill me! i Can’t remember what pushed me to but I just blocked him one day and deactivated all the accounts he knew me on in a panic. it took me until I was fifteen to have a Proper social media following again and even then I felt sick for years and years thinking he could find me or hurt me.

Even now it makes me feel sick - I hate Myself for doing it in the first place, I was so bloody stupid, I probably deserved at least part of it for being on there in the first place. It has put me off bringing it up because I know people will point fingers at me. It honestly makes me sick to think of what could have happened if I let it escalate even more. I can’t ever tell any of my family about it but I know now to lock down as much of my social media as possible and that when I have a kid they are not ever having unsupervised internet access until at least their twenties

Oh my darling, you shouldn't feel any shame or guilt. You were a child and he was a horrible pervert. I know how we're conditioned as little girls to feel responsible for how boys react to us and that's so wrong. The world is a dangerous place and you were a blameless victim.

 

[Mickey86]

This isn’t as scary/creepy as a lot of you guys have posted, but it’s recently been playing on my mind how stupid I was when I was younger (probably to do with the fact my eldest child is venturing out more on their own and has a phone). When I was 14 I was out on the Estate where I lived with my then best friend, she was talking to this older guy who lived near us (he was 25) when a car pulled up next to us. A man got out of the car and was talking to the guy that we knew, he then turned his attention to me, started flirting and asked me where I lived. I stupidly pointed to the direction of my house and he asked for my number. I gave it to him and he spent the next few weeks messaging me, saying how he wanted me to come to his house and have sex, have sex in the shower with him, go for long drives together and was basically really creepy. He told me he was a police officer and he wouldn’t let any harm come to me. At first I thought talking to him was amazing, he wanted to spend time with me and seemed obsessed but when I look back on what happened now, I can clearly see he was a dirty little creep. I changed my number soon after this and didn’t hear or see him again.

 

[HitchhikingGhost]

The above posts reminded me of a few things-

I have a generous chest area and did so as a teen. I'll never forget a man about to walk past me but stopped, looked at my chest and licked his lips then just carried on walking. I was probably around 12/13.

On a night out a few years ago when I was in my mid 20s, I was standing at the bar waiting to be served. A guy came and stood between me and my friend and put his arms around our shoulders. Next thing I felt a hand in between my legs and then saw my friend react like wtf so he had done it to both of us at the same time. He then just proceeded to order his drink

Hate it how strangers think it's ok to touch us

 

[emmer_moans]

Gosh sometimes I feel bad for driving most places at night because of pollution etc but I rarely walk alone in the dark. We should be able to! No victim blaming here. It's the fear of being outrun that gets me. I use an amazon parcel locker on a petrol forecourt near me. You can bet I drive with doors locked riiiiight up to the locker, grab my parcel and get in the car in less than 30 seconds.

The scariest thing that happened to me was some student in a packed lecture theatre shouting at me that he wanted to kill me then stormed out. The sound boomed, I was 18, of course I called the police when i got home. Lecturer just carried on, didn't ask if I was ok. Days later the faculty staff said they wish I hadnt called police as the student had only recently diagnosed mental health issues and learning difficulties, which I didnt know. He was a bit stalkery in the weeks leading up to it, got upset that me and my coursemates were sat together with no space for him. We were not friends, he just latched onto us and we 'had' to sit with him. He was very tall and broad, and I was scrawny and small, I was no match. I'll never forget my heart pouding in my chest. Police only took a statement and I chickened out of proceeding any further. The faculty then got the lad referred to mental health services which I guess is positive, and he was asked to leave us alone. I still felt intimidated going into lecture theatres. He also a mature student at least 15 years older so you can imagine how intimidating the situation was. Even to this say I get tinges of guilt for calling the police, but I was doing what most anxious 18 year old students would do, which was to do as their concerned parent asks via phone in such a situation. His words needed to be taken seriously, I did not know what he was capable of. We all graduated so i take some relief from the fact his life wasn't ruined.

Thinking back, I never said anything horrid, I was never deliberately exclusionary, he was 1 in a 200 strong cohort, that wasn't in any of my tutor groups but latched onto my friend, who to be honest was being too nice out of compassion, but it perpetuated the stalking the weeks before the incident. He made a beeline for us every time. On that day he was actually last to arrive so his reaction at our row being full was completely out of order. 10 years later and it still bothers me!

 

[Followtheyellowbrickroad]

just remembered one.... I used to live in a flat years ago... I just had my twins (girls) and loads of strangers would stop and ask me questions about the girls.. people just being friendly... anyway I was out with them once when a teenage boy stopped me and said they were cute !!!! At the time I thought that’s odd for a boy to do that because it was mostly women usually older woman that would talk to me about the girls....anyway fast forward a few years and the girls by now we’re 5.... we moved house because the flat was too small... anyway I went to the supermarket and walking home down our road... when the same boy who said the girls were cute appeared !!!! I was looking at him thinking I’ve met you before!!!! Then remembered who he was.....
He was with his nan .... they lived down the same freaking road as us..... anyway he was looking at the girls and said do you want to come and see my rabbits and the girls been innocent said yessssss..... so we went together to go and see his rabbits ..... when we came out of that house I told the girls firmly that they never ever talk to strangers or go anywhere near that boy.... I just have a bad feeling about him...... four years forward..... he was arrested and charged with rape ..... of a child ... she was 9 and he raped her over the park that we lived facing ...... my blood still runs cold now typing this.....

 

[Emily1416]

When I was younger my family would all go and stay for a holiday in the south of France with my parents friends who had a house there. We had been doing this for a few years, I even brought a school friend along one time, I have some really fond memories of that particular holiday. However the last time I went it was just myself and my parents (my older sister was living away at uni at the time) I think I was around 14/15 at this point.
I remember being in the garden next to the swimming pool chatting with my parents friend ‘Colin’. I would like to point out Colin is in his 60s and at this point I really enjoyed his company, to me he was an eccentric older man who told fantastic stories and was just generally a funny guy.
I can’t remember what we were chatting about but he turns to me suddenly and asks if I’ve ever had a boyfriend....i tell him not really.... he then grabs me either side of my arms and says have I ever been kissed.... at this point I start to panic.... I can’t remember what I replied but he then said something along the lines of ‘let me give you a kiss’ and leans in. I must’ve been quite forceful and pushed him away as he didnt try again.
It’s the fear I felt afterwards at night though... the property had a gite which was attached to the main part of the house, I was staying in there and I swear I didn’t sleep at all that first night as I was really scared he might come in when everybody else was asleep. That was the only thing that happened but they are still friends to this day and so sometimes I still have to see them... I’ve have never told anybody this, I didn’t even think to tell my mum and dad either, I guess I didn’t think they would believe me.

 

[Followtheyellowbrickroad]

I said on a previously thread, something happened to me when I was 7.... i was sexually assaulted and made to touch him while his girlfriend watched !!!! This was my neighbour who I trusted !!!!! Still have flashbacks !!!!

 

[Apple In My Pie]

I said on a previously thread, something happened to me when I was 7.... i was sexually assaulted and made to touch him while his girlfriend watched !!!! This was my neighbour who I trusted !!!!! Still have flashbacks !!!!

ah that’s awful, I’m so sorry

 

[LittleMy]

I said on a previously thread, something happened to me when I was 7.... i was sexually assaulted and made to touch him while his girlfriend watched !!!! This was my neighbour who I trusted !!!!! Still have flashbacks !!!!

That’s awful. Nobody should ever have to go through something so horrific, especially a young child. I hope you’re ok *hugs*

 

[Followtheyellowbrickroad]

That’s awful. Nobody should ever have to go through something so horrific, especially a young child. I hope you’re ok *hugs*

I’m ok....
I just hope he didn’t hurt anyone else... that’s the thing that worry’s me the most tbh.