The finale of Derry girls they could have made it a happy occasion but they didn’t and I didn’t want to cry tonight!!
This! Woke up feeling horrendous this morning! Feel like my throat is closing up.My hay fever kicked in today!
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! I’m nowhere near ready to have children, but I hope to someday! This has always really bothered me.. if you ‘bounce back’ immediately then you’re a terrible selfish mother who spent more time worrying about her diet than her newborn, and if you carry some extra weight for a while afterwards, you’re lazy and can’t be bothered to take care of yourself. Drives me insaneThe fact that after having a baby and you've gone back to normal size soon after, you're not allowed to post a photo of yourself or be in any photos shortly after birth looking slim because people will jump on you telling you that's not a normal after giving birth! Honestly I'm so sick ot posts from women showing themselves bigger than they was pre pregnancy and saying how that is the normal and basically if you don't look like that then it's not....apparently you're giving other people wrong expectations. Bullshit. Some women bounce back straight away and some don't....its how different bodies are....and either is absolutely fine. People are jumping on the bandwagon saying of 'but society says we should bounce back quickly after giving birth'
No...society does not say that at all, people are just throwing that around because they've seen people say that...without knowing if it's true or not. Lets just normalise both and stop making women who went back into their size jeans the day after giving birth feel like they can't look like that because the offended brigade who didn't will show off!
Yep! If anyone dares say that they want to work out after their baby is born....they r a terrible mother and shouldn't care about their extra weight?? But why the hell not?? If someone is uncomfortable with the way they may look then why shouldn't they be able to feel that and work out? If you are happy with it.....that's awesome too!! I just hate seeing all this crap about basically if you don't have excess weight after then it's not normal, u simply MUST put weight on and then flaunt it. If you don't, don't u dare show anyone cus you're clearly doing it to make others feel badSAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! I’m nowhere near ready to have children, but I hope to someday! This has always really bothered me.. if you ‘bounce back’ immediately then you’re a terrible selfish mother who spent more time worrying about her diet than her newborn, and if you carry some extra weight for a while afterwards, you’re lazy and can’t be bothered to take care of yourself. Drives me insane
They say that a lot on the Chit-Chat thread!I'm knackered.
But I really am knackered, still recovering from Major Surgery.They say that a lot on the Chit-Chat thread!
Same hereBut I really am knackered, still recovering from Major Surgery.