I agree, I don’t mind genuine PDAs, but it’s the almost constant level of it and feeling forced by W and so fake.Their PDAs disgust me. Not because they’re two women. that’s absolutely grand. It’s just… them. Whitney especially. UGH.
I agree, I don’t mind genuine PDAs, but it’s the almost constant level of it and feeling forced by W and so fake.Their PDAs disgust me. Not because they’re two women. that’s absolutely grand. It’s just… them. Whitney especially. UGH.
This is why I said previously that I thought W was the driving force.I agree, I don’t mind genuine PDAs, but it’s the almost constant level of it and feeling forced by W and so fake.
That reel oh my gosh, they were both eye bleeping that cameraThis is why I said previously that I thought W was the driving force.
Others said they thought it was M. I guess it could be either.
Did anyone see their reel a few days ago where they were talking about what gives them the ‘ick’?
What do you thinkOhhhh I’ve just come across their TikTok!
I think it’s ridiculous and I am struggling to understand how they have so many followers with such little interaction on the reels or whatever they’re called. We’re not sisters/mother and daughter/Whitney is American done to death over and over, insert a couple of pouts for good measure.What do you think
To add to this - I hope all followers (or future followers) of ‘relationship’ influencers recognise that:It’s really not unusual to be in a long term relationship by your mid thirties. They don’t seem to be able to move on mentally from when they started blogging and they saw their relationship as being aspirational for their young followers. They seem now to be talking an audience much younger than they are but I’m not sure that audience are going to be interested.
say it louder for the people in the backTo add to this - I hope all followers (or future followers) of ‘relationship’ influencers recognise that:
Not every long-term relationship is a happy one.
Not every ‘aspirational’ relationship is a healthy one.
Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors, away from the highlights reel of social media.
Also, a romantic relationship doesn’t define or complete you.
Comparison is a fool’s game when it comes to love. We simply can’t compare relationships, as they are all so unique. Whilst there may be some common denominators - love, respect, communication, etc - what works for one couple (or person) won’t necessarily work for another.
I cringe myself inside-out when I see reels like Wegan’s, trumpeting ‘Our secrets to a successful relationship!’ I’m not dismissing their 15 years together, including long-distance. Nor am I saying they’re being disingenuous. But in my experience, couples who truly HAVE stood the test of time tend to be very humble about it. I have spent a lot of time with the elderly in my line of work, and inevitably - if they share anything at all about their relationships - they say it comes down to love and a large helping of good fortune. One couple who celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary - together for a lifetime and utterly devoted to each other - were bewildered that anyone else would be interested in their story, and didn’t want any fuss. Some of these relationship bloggers would do well to take a leaf out of their book.
I think this is bang on. They had some great content when the LDR/closing the gap/femme thing was current, but it’s not anymore and they seem to have struggled to find a hook for their content since then. Their day to day posting is very mundane. I also cannot COPE with the pouty lips and weird under chin hand pose, makes me irrationally irritated every time!It’s really not unusual to be in a long term relationship by your mid thirties. They don’t seem to be able to move on mentally from when they started blogging and they saw their relationship as being aspirational for their young followers. They seem now to be talking an audience much younger than they are but I’m not sure that audience are going to be interested.