What DOESN’T give you the ick?

[under the ivy]

Cleanliness / being tidy/organised
Polite and caring
Isn't a Tory
Calm and able to talk through problems with, rather than arguing
Good taste in music
Hard-working and ambitious
Brown hair
Blue eyes
Has hobbies/interests/passions of his own
Loves animals / kids
Holding hands in public and putting hand on my leg when driving

 

[LucyEyelesbarrow]

Cleanliness / being tidy/organised
Polite and caring
Isn't a Tory
Calm and able to talk through problems with, rather than arguing
Good taste in music
Hard-working and ambitious
Brown hair
Blue eyes
Has hobbies/interests/passions of his own
Loves animals / kids
Holding hands in public and putting hand on my leg when driving

BIB - goodness, yes! Men that don't need 'managing' but are perfectly capable of organising their own lives are definitely attractive.

 

[milkywaymelon]

Ever since Top Gun Maverick, I have to say, I like a moustache

 

[leigh213]

I've missed this thread, maybe we can revive it

-Multitalented ( esp in the arts) & not a show off, but knowing when it's time for their skill and being confident with it.
-Articulate. LOVE. When someone pronounces things well, and speaks well.
-Nice voice ^^ goes along with above.
-Smiling a lot.
-Nice teeth and lips. ( I could DIE )
-Someone who pays attention well, to anyone not just me. So giving anyone who is speaking their attention/ someone who reads the room well. ( I think I posted that before lolll but oh well).

-Valuing the small things/ happy to do whatever/ going with the flow.
-Not worried about being on SM or making posts to keep up/ comparing themselves with the next person.
-Patience.
-Easygoing but not passive.
-Someone who compliments other people well, and who tries to point out good things about others when they're struggling, or even if they're not!
-SPORTY. Love tracksuits, sweatpants ( ANDDDD sweatshirts, you can't forget those!!), baseball hats, hoodies, ahhhhh

 

[Hastaggifted]

Ohh there's something about my husband in sweats and a baseball cap especially when he turns it backwards


Work trousers and a hard hat too

Week to 10day beard when it covers the face but isn't bushy

 

[Black.bird]

Love of animals
Clean shaven
Excellent hygiene
Sense of humour
Positive outlook
Calm and easygoing manner
Hobbies and interests of their own
Self-managing
Good manners

 

[leigh213]

Ohh there's something about my husband in sweats and a baseball cap especially when he turns it backwards


Work trousers and a hard hat too

Week to 10day beard when it covers the face but isn't bushy

never been around a guy in a hard hat but you might be onto something

Love of animals
Clean shaven
Excellent hygiene
Sense of humour
Positive outlook
Calm and easygoing manner
Hobbies and interests of their own
Self-managing
Good manners

oooh I agree with so many of these <3

 

[Punchface]

Men who drive vans

 

[ReginaPhalange4]

I've never admitted it before today to anyone and thought I was alone with the forearm love when my husband is in a long sleeved shirt with the arms rolled up 🫠

men with sexy strong forearms

reversing the car by putting their (preferably sexy) arm behind passenger seat and looking back

confidence, many guys cross the line into arrogance but actual confidence is so inticing ti me.

 

[freshhead]

-Chivalry/good manners
-Honesty (even if it’s going to hurt!)
-Understands I do things my own way, but happy to help me too without shirking the entire load on to me and making excuses for it
-Rather than say they’re going to do something, just do it!
-Pride over their work
-Soft hands
-Throws ideas out for things to do and adventures to be had!
-Great tea maker
-Calm and patient
-Genuine love of children
-Broad shoulders
-Good at DIY!
-Appreciates the small things in life
-Doesn’t shy away from the idea of marriage
-Nice eyes (bonus points!)

 

[CyanideKiss]

Big, warm, dry hands with tidy but not manicured nails.
Nice firm jaw with a hint of stubble.
Broad shoulders, hairy chest, slightly cuddly tum.
Must be both clever AND well educated.
Must be able to make me giggle.
Thick penis.
Must smell amazing. His own faint musk + hint of aftershave.

And, yes Reader I did indeed marry him.

 

[Laughingforlife]

Anyone like men in glasses or am I weird?
Not all of them though....

 

[mcfeez]

Anyone like men in glasses or am I weird?
Not all of them though....

I love glasses on guys, it enhances their attractiveness for me if I already think they are good looking.

 

[abusyday]

Beards
Coffee breath
Nice smile
Intelligent conversation without arrogance

 

[Punchface]

I love glasses too, and here’s another vote for strong forearms

 

[TooFarScone]

A hi-vis. Preferably orange.

 

[Laughingforlife]

Waistcoats

 

[Donnavanessa]

Builder’s tool belt
Big biceps
Well trimmed beard
Patience
Calmness
Can make me laugh
Confident driver

 

[princessmaire80]

I’m a sucker for big shoulders. Especially if they give good hugs.
Tall blond men who either a) play in the front row at rugby or b) look like they could!
A flash of Calvin Klein boxers over the waistband of jeans. And they have to be black boxer brief type.
Hairy chests
I do like tats on a man but not excessive ones.

 

[Souffle]

Someone mentioned coffee breath but I’m a sucker for beer breath. I think it’s just because it’s manly! I make the bf kiss me lots when he’s had beer