What a massive cow. I'd be asking Mr Melon to step up more.My mother in law, she’s a twat. I’m going through some personal stuff and she won’t leave me alone. She’s constantly texting me, phoning me, trying to FaceTime me. I just ignore but sadly we live next door to her Mum who she visits everyday. So she’s taken upon herself to knock everyday! I’ve just went through two miscarriages back to back, I’m still suffering physically and very much emotionally, yesterday I gave my partner a hug cos he was going somewhere whilst she was there and she says ‘careful Mr Melon, she’ll be getting horny again now, make sure you wrap it up so you don’t end up with another one’ who says that to someone who is still going through a miscarriage????? Whenever she sees me, even though she knows what happened to me, what’s happened at hospital appointments, what’s happened during the aftermath, from my partner, she continues to ask me, even though she knows it all anyway cos her sons already told her, but she still does it, and makes stupid fucking comments. Like ‘maybe you shouldn’t have tried again’ or the best one was, ‘I don’t think I’d have liked another grand child anyway, I’d favourite (my son I already have) anyway’she’s a cunt. And if I say anything to my partner he says ‘she’s only trying to help’ or about her stupid comments ‘she’s just trying to be funny’
Sounds like he was trying to make you feel guilty. I’d also like to know what exactly you’ve done that’s selfish? Not watch HIS child? Family babysitting for free is a privilege not a right. Even if you weren’t ill you’d still have every right to say no.I have an inner ear infection and it really hurts, I feel rubbish all day. My brother text me earlier and asked would I watch my niece tonight overnight, I said no because I didn’t feel great and was having an early night, he replied with ‘bit selfish but alright no problem’I do so much with my nieces and nephews, I am a very involved aunt and it’s so annoying that the one time I say no that is the response.
I am seriously wondering if this is the case. She’s also been hallucinating in the night. She blames her meds but this is a symptom of Lewy Body dementia. Also my aunt visited last week and she said when my mum answered the door she wasn’t making any sense. She’s had the bog standard test at the Drs and passed but I think I need to contact them again
I would ask him to replace them. Depending on the age of the child too also ask her to chip in.
My reaction to the latest wave of panic attacks has mainly been anger and frustration. I just want to get on with my life, but I keep getting these unbearable physical symptoms - breathlessness, tight chest, nausea, shaking, sweating. It's hard to describe how bad panic attacks are to someone who's never had them before, and it's even worse when you can't get it under control. NHS talking therapy hasn't helped much and I'm thinking about asking to go on medication again. I don't really want to, though.
“You can be the juiciest peach in the world but there will still be somebody who doesn’t like peaches”They haven't, I was on my way out the door to go to work and was a bit thrown by the "sorry but you haven't got it" phone call as noone has ever phoned me to say I haven't got a job before....consider myself lucky if I get an email usuallyWill need to see if I can request as it would be good to know why they went for someone else. Not that I think I'm amazing but I felt like I'd performed the in-tray exercise well and answered the questions fully with relevant examples
Stab to the heart is a good description as it's hard not to take it personally.
I once read they’ve made their mind up on you within the first 2 seconds and it’s rare it’ll change. So even if you give the best performance of your life, some people just won’t warm to you and it’s 0 reflection on you. I do find that I can tell quite early on when someone isn’t keen and is just going through the motions so I think there is some truth to it. Don’t beat yourself up, I’m sure you did great and it just wasn’t meant to be unfortunately 
Something better will be on the horizon im sure of it.‘you’ll find someone when you’re not looking!’ aye fuck off, always said by people who’ve been with their partner that adores them since they were fresh out of the womb. The majority of my relationships were with abusive people who treated me like absolute shit and friends who broke up with their partners for being too nice thought they could dish out generic platitudes like ‘you need to love yourself first!’
I disagree. The age of the person was given, their gender and sexual orientation. It's too much information. There's no issue with someone finding something at work difficult but to discuss it so openly on a public forum, with so many identifying factors, crosses the patient confidentiality line in my opinion. These are more conversations you have with colleagues. If I'd had a medical procedure done and then happened across a post talking about it like that I'd be completely devastated and it would potentially put me off seeking future treatment.
Oh don't worry, I'm not giving it up
. I'm not even going to justify myself to them. I was just pissed off at the entitlement and attempt to make me feel bad, when it's not my fault that the system is random and they chose to have kids.They haven't, I was on my way out the door to go to work and was a bit thrown by the "sorry but you haven't got it" phone call as noone has ever phoned me to say I haven't got a job before....consider myself lucky if I get an email usually
Will need to see if I can request as it would be good to know why they went for someone else. Not that I think I'm amazing but I felt like I'd performed the in-tray exercise well and answered the questions fully with relevant examples Stab to the heart is a good description as it's hard not to take it personally.
what I’m saying doesn’t matter then no? 
I'm never going to complain about my family againWho would stay somewhere cheap when they plan to ask somebody else to pay for itIt’s funny because when my partner went to visit her a few months ago for a day or two I didn’t go, but he said she took all the toilet roll out of the house and put it in the boot of her car so he couldn’t use it, he told me this yesterday and said it was mental and he was so baffled by it he didnt even tell me. honestly you couldn’t make it up.
