It shouldn’t do but it hurts like hell doesn’t it? Why do they do it? Selfish lot.Certain family completing ignoring my child’s birthday. Not even a like on a social media post but they had viewed it. I always make an effort for them but not anymore.
I’d be annoyed too tbh xBoyfriend was going out for drinks with work today at some party. He cane over this morning and convinced me to stay at his afterwards, so I said sure, I'll pick him up when it's over and we'll go chill at his together. Planned my whole evening around that and got everything ready.
Anyway received a text an hour ago "I'm gonna go out in to town, having a great evening here, don't worry about staying at mine". Really pissed off, I'm happy he's having a good time after being depressed for so long, its his first night he's enjoyed. However I feel let down and disappointed. He hyped me up all morning to stay at his, was convincing me to stay and then cancels on me last minute. Just feel really pissed off and because he's so drunk he doesn't get it.
I struggle when things dont go to plan or the way we had scheduled, so this has just thrown me off massively and upset me. I've barely seen him all week, was looking forward to later and spending time together and having some us time. But oh no, apparently not!!
Just needed to rant as I know its minor but it's just fucked me off, I hate people letting me down and try so hard not to do it to others!
If he told me earlier on in the day I'd of been fine, before I done everything and got ready for his! Or even if he just said "I'm not sure what I'm doing tonight, so I'll let you know if I go home or not" would've been fine! But the fact he made plans with me and then cancelled an hour before is so frustrating!! I can't see him until mid week now anyway -his loss when he'll be hanging tomorrow and wanting me there, he missed out on that oneI’d be annoyed too tbh x
He'll probably feel silly tomorrow when he sobers up. Let him grovel!If he told me earlier on in the day I'd of been fine, before I done everything and got ready for his! Or even if he just said "I'm not sure what I'm doing tonight, so I'll let you know if I go home or not" would've been fine! But the fact he made plans with me and then cancelled an hour before is so frustrating!! I can't see him until mid week now anyway -his loss when he'll be hanging tomorrow and wanting me there, he missed out on that one
I will, no sympathy from me at all tomorrow, that's for sure!He'll probably feel silly tomorrow when he sobers up. Let him grovel!
It’s definitely not on cancelling an hour before. I no hope he feels like shit todayIf he told me earlier on in the day I'd of been fine, before I done everything and got ready for his! Or even if he just said "I'm not sure what I'm doing tonight, so I'll let you know if I go home or not" would've been fine! But the fact he made plans with me and then cancelled an hour before is so frustrating!! I can't see him until mid week now anyway -his loss when he'll be hanging tomorrow and wanting me there, he missed out on that one
My husband promised to come home from football, buy the ingredients for dinner and make it, got me all excited with what he was going to make us (we had no food in and he never cooks) but then as the afternoon drew on I kept getting these texts blaming his mates for the fact he hadn’t left yet. I ended up texting him “you’re nearly 40, grow up and take some accountability for your actions ffs” meanwhile me and the 2 yr old sat at home with baked beans on toast for dinner on a Saturday night. They can be selfish twats sometimes.Boyfriend was going out for drinks with work today at some party. He cane over this morning and convinced me to stay at his afterwards, so I said sure, I'll pick him up when it's over and we'll go chill at his together. Planned my whole evening around that and got everything ready.
Anyway received a text an hour ago "I'm gonna go out in to town, having a great evening here, don't worry about staying at mine". Really pissed off, I'm happy he's having a good time after being depressed for so long, its his first night he's enjoyed. However I feel let down and disappointed. He hyped me up all morning to stay at his, was convincing me to stay and then cancels on me last minute. Just feel really pissed off and because he's so drunk he doesn't get it.
I struggle when things dont go to plan or the way we had scheduled, so this has just thrown me off massively and upset me. I've barely seen him all week, was looking forward to later and spending time together and having some us time. But oh no, apparently not!!
Just needed to rant as I know its minor but it's just fucked me off, I hate people letting me down and try so hard not to do it to others!
When it comes to home sales I strongly believe there is a guiding force, no joke. My mother’s flat has a story of miss and then victory. She got the place that she was eyeing and truly suits her in time for weathering the pandemic. My place could have also easily gone another way — there were two other people before me who were qualified but didn’t pass their interviews. It’s what I needed to make it through the pandemic as well. When I was looking at different areas to move, my father named this neighborhood as his #1 idea*. It’s very niche and incredible that he called it. I’m sorry that the owners are doing this to your dream home. I understand the heart break. The owners of my childhood home tore down all of the trees; it hurts. There’s another place out there and it will work out when it’s meant to.This is pathetic (given some of you have actual, real issues to rant about, but anyway...)
A couple of years ago my partner and I saw a house on Rightmove that was, in many ways, our dream property. It was in a small town not far from him so even though we weren't in a position to buy there and then (as I have a house to sell first and he had some financial issues to resolve, our plan was in 3-5 years), we decided to do a 'drive by' and have a nose. As it was unoccupied (probate sale I think) we drove up the driveway and looked through the windows. Even though it was a horribly wintery day there was something about it I loved. I could honestly see us living there. It wasn't the prettiest house to many people but there was something about it, plus it had fields front and back and a driveway well over 100ft long. I spent a lot of time thinking about how I'd decorate it, rejig the layout, and then what it would be like living there. Which was all a lovely distraction from the Covid stuff going on at the time.
Of course it sold to someone else, I felt sad for days after. Since then I've checked the planning portal (as I suspected whoever bought it would extend it - but until it did I had hope of one day buying it) but it's never come up, until today. The new owners have plans to extend it and completely redo the front white and grey, making the windows smaller so it looks dull, boring and bland like every other 'developed' house nowadays. There's a massive wisteria at the front that'll probably have to go. I just wish they were doing something nicer with it.
I split up with my partner in May too, so now I have no partner, and no future dream house
A little picture of how the house looked at it's best (I expect they've probably filled in the pond now too!)
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I always feel quite resentful of my car costing me money, my Ex used to say you should allocate £50-100 a month to a car maintenance budget, depending on the age and size of the car, and all the years it costs you less than £600 annually are a bonus. Which isn't a bad way to look at it (provided you've got £50 a month to spare) but I still resent my car not trying harder to pass it's MOT.My car needs a new clutch even though the same garage told me my fault was a ‘software update’ and a new battery 6 weeks ago. I’m sick of spending money on my car
What a lovely setting. I hate this trend for grey houses. That house is beautiful with the wisteria.This is pathetic (given some of you have actual, real issues to rant about, but anyway...)
A couple of years ago my partner and I saw a house on Rightmove that was, in many ways, our dream property. It was in a small town not far from him so even though we weren't in a position to buy there and then (as I have a house to sell first and he had some financial issues to resolve, our plan was in 3-5 years), we decided to do a 'drive by' and have a nose. As it was unoccupied (probate sale I think) we drove up the driveway and looked through the windows. Even though it was a horribly wintery day there was something about it I loved. I could honestly see us living there. It wasn't the prettiest house to many people but there was something about it, plus it had fields front and back and a driveway well over 100ft long. I spent a lot of time thinking about how I'd decorate it, rejig the layout, and then what it would be like living there. Which was all a lovely distraction from the Covid stuff going on at the time.
Of course it sold to someone else, I felt sad for days after. Since then I've checked the planning portal (as I suspected whoever bought it would extend it - but until it did I had hope of one day buying it) but it's never come up, until today. The new owners have plans to extend it and completely redo the front white and grey, making the windows smaller so it looks dull, boring and bland like every other 'developed' house nowadays. There's a massive wisteria at the front that'll probably have to go. I just wish they were doing something nicer with it.
I split up with my partner in May too, so now I have no partner, and no future dream house
A little picture of how the house looked at it's best (I expect they've probably filled in the pond now too!)
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Bloody social media letting MILs track you downI’m currently going through a miscarriage so I’m not in the chattiest of moods. My MIL tried FaceTiming me 3 times earlier on in the day and tbh I didn’t want to answer. I weren’t in the mood. She doesn’t want to speak to me, she FaceTimes to see my toddler. So I didn’t answer. A friend tagged me in something on fb and I responded and my MIL seen this, rang my boyfriend and told him I’d ignored her and that she wanted to see my son (who she sees every other day) my boyfriends comes home and has a go at me. Calls me ignorant. Sorry that I feel like shit and don’t want to listen to your Mum drone on and on and on and on
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