Funnily enough that is the route I went down this morning . I told him to duck off and that I’d immediately stop doing everything that I do directly for him and see how he gets on. When he said ‘well you cook for everyone’ I said don’t worry I’ll make sure your portion goes in the bin .I have no advice because if my husband spoke to me this way I'd tell him to duck off and that's not the well rounded, reasonable advice I think I should give but I would feel exactly the same as you. I would then probably resort to only doing things for me and the kids (& dog) and doing nothing for him, but I'm petty like that x
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I forgot to add reminding him he’s a grown man capable of seeing to his own lunch was in there tooAre you me?
I would also add in there who the duck do you think you're speaking to, make your own bleeping lunch, I'm not your mother.
Petty AF too and he wouldn't have clean clothes or a cooked meal until he at least apologised!