Very similar to my relative. Got themselves into a lot of debt on top of either side of the family contributing and it's been off and on recently. Can't imagine what would happen if it was actually final, the house sold and they had to start again. I am actually quite careful what I post and mostly do things other people don't know about other than people I speak to. People can be nosy and I am quite private but I also don't want to be seen as one of these people showing off!We went to a big flashy wedding a couple of years ago, my husbands friend. It was all her wedding, what she wanted, all to show off what they had/could afford etc. They’re in the middle of getting divorced now….so probably cost them about 50k per year of marriage. Could you be arsed.