Unpopular opinions #8

[emm]

PREACH!!!!
no christmas stuff till December!! im fed up of instagramers and youtubers doing christmas house decor tours at the beginning of november!!
and the bows on the doors has gained the typical sheep following......BAAAAAAA

exactly, it just makes xmas less special as it drags on for 3+ months instead of just December like it should be, I feel sorry for people who work in retail that have to deal with months and months of xmas music on a loop in some shops

 

[StrawberryCream]

I don’t want to diss anyones small business as they are only trying to make a living but there is a special place in hell for anyone who has one of these on their front door. So naff. Also Christmas decorations should not be put up til December.
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Those fake hanging grass things and fake plants in gardens should also be banned, they look tacky as hell.

 

[Quattro formaggi]

PREACH!!!!
no christmas stuff till December!! im fed up of instagramers and youtubers doing christmas house decor tours at the beginning of november!!
and the bows on the doors has gained the typical sheep following......BAAAAAAA

And Christmas songs on the radio in November

Can I add those horrible green ball things that are in that photo? Awful things, they don't look realistic, and I think they look silly outside houses.

My neighbour has a purple one. It looked quite nice at first although not to my taste but after being exposed to the Kentish elements for 2 years just looks shabby

 

[wordzalad]

I find women calling their lover or object of lust “daddy” repulsive. The connotations turn my stomach and I think it sends out a very weird message.

Agreed! If my BF asked me to call him Daddy I would leave . I’ve called my celebrity crushes DILFs or joked about wishing I had a sugar daddy but actually calling someone Daddy in a sexy sense

I had someone say you’re vanilla if you don’t like it. I mean I don’t see how not liking Daddy talk or whatever it is makes you vanilla. Call someone Mistress or Sir all you like but Mommy or Daddy is weird to me

 

[SqualorVictoria]

Why is vanilla seen as a bad thing anyway?

Unless they're sleeping with you why should they care?!

 

[PrincessCharming]

I think that when people need kinks to get off they’re not getting the vanilla right.

 

[SqualorVictoria]

This leads me to my unpopular opinion- 'sex positivity' has gone too far. Nowadays I feel like unless people like getting choked while wearing a butt plug and nipple clamps they're deemed 'vanilla' or 'boring' or a 'prude'. I'll never forgive the silly bint who told me not to 'kink shame' Armie Hammer when I said he was a disgusting pervert.

If anything we could do with becoming more prudish as a society!

 

[Notgonnalie]

This leads me to my unpopular opinion- 'sex positivity' has gone too far. Nowadays I feel like unless people like getting choked while wearing a butt plug and nipple clamps they're deemed 'vanilla' or 'boring' or a 'prude'. I'll never forgive the silly bint who told me not to 'kink shame' Armie Hammer when I said he was a disgusting pervert.

If anything we could do with becoming more prudish as a society!

This!! Not everyone wants to be kinky some people enjoy sex without the frills and trimmings

 

[wordzalad]

Why is vanilla seen as a bad thing anyway?

Unless they're sleeping with you why should they care?!

Exactly! Vanilla doesn’t mean bad. Sometimes you wanna just get laid . As long as everything is safe and consensual who cares if youre getting whipped or not.

I think that when people need kinks to get off they’re not getting the vanilla right.

Exactly. Or they’re not compatible with their partner and they’re not working on being compatible

 

[SqualorVictoria]

The type of women who call other women vanilla are total pick mes. They want to show how enlightened they are because their boyfriend took a dump on their chest or whatever. They're better than those boring vanilla women. They're doing it to convince themselves more than anyone

 

[jackolantern]

Be Vanilla, Chocolate or bleeping Neapolitan, but I just don't want to hear about it Sandra tbh

 

[Kiki999]

Possibly unpopular opinions, on here at least-

I do actually feel sorry for Mrs Hinch over her son's speech delay, even though I can't stand her. That's because I would feel sorry for anyone whose kid had a speech delay. I know someone who has a six year old kid who still doesn't speak now (chromosonal abnormality, possible severe autism) and whilst her two othrr kids are smart, charming, funny and affectionate, with the six year old, she has never even so much as heard her say "Mummy" let alone "I love you Mummy". So yes, Hinch is a prick and it's bad that she seemed ashamed of her kid's issues for so long but atthr same time I wouldn't wish that on anyone and I would have struggled with it too frankly.

Likewise, I feel sorry for Lauren Goodger over her baby being in hospital recently. Seeing your child really sick, being powerless to help and knowing that they don't understand is horrendous. So as awful a human being as Lauren generallyis, I still have compassion for that situation, which I wouldn't wish on anyone.

Final one - I DO think it is more expensive to feed your child healthily, especially when they are picky. And I say this from the very privileged perspective of earning enough to never have to worry about this kind of thing but understanding that with my picky child that the luxury of not being on a tight budget makes my life easier. Healthy granary bread is more expensive than cheap white bread. Lean chicken is more expensive than cheap sausages. Even better quality, higher meat content sausages (thus more protein) are more expensive than cheap rusk filled sausages. Batch cooking from scratch healthy foods that your child actually likes is great but only a really an option if you have a decent size freezer to store it all in, which you probably don't if you live in a 2 bed flat. I can buy non dairy milk specially made for young kids with extra vitamins added, which helps if your kid isn't great at eating veg, but if you have a tight budget then that stuff isn't cheap and it's cheaper just to buy a bottle of regular semi skimmed dairy milk. I definitely wouldn't manage to get her to eat as healthily if I was on a tight budget.

I feel sorry for the baby I don't feel sorry for Lauren who repeatedly puts her child in danger. She is a smoker (which could very well be the cause of the bronchitis in the first place). She insisted in using 'natural' remedies that she got free when the baby was really ill and the baby sleeps unsafely with a pillow and duvet every night. (Even if this is just what she shows on insta and not everything she does she is promoting that behavior to others.) She is publicly an anti-vaxxer despite the fact she can barely spell her own name let alone have any medical knowledge to make an informed decison.

 

[Phoenix Lazarus]

This leads me to my unpopular opinion- 'sex positivity' has gone too far. Nowadays I feel like unless people like getting choked while wearing a butt plug and nipple clamps they're deemed 'vanilla' or 'boring' or a 'prude'. I'll never forgive the silly bint who told me not to 'kink shame' Armie Hammer when I said he was a disgusting pervert.

If anything we could do with becoming more prudish as a society!

It was probably more exciting in the 50s and before, where it had more mystique

 

[Crabbypatty00]

Deliberately conceiving a child without an active father in it's life is the ultimate in putting yourself and your wants before your child's. I don't think it's right that a person can just decide that their child "doesn't need" the other sex in their life. I would say that for lone parents through choice, and same sex couples, which I know is unpopular. Children need both sexes ideally, that's why it takes both to make one.

Separation, divorce, death yes, it's unfortunate but it's not deliberate deprivation from the very start!

 

[Oohthedrama]

I don’t want to diss anyones small business as they are only trying to make a living but there is a special place in hell for anyone who has one of these on their front door. So naff. Also Christmas decorations should not be put up til December.
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what the actual duck is that….

Isn’t that they type of thing you put on someone’s door when you’re sending a hitman to finish them off or something? That’s a level of crazy nobody should profit from.

 

[wordzalad]

I feel sorry for the baby I don't feel sorry for Lauren who repeatedly puts her child in danger. She is a smoker (which could very well be the cause of the bronchitis in the first place). She insisted in using 'natural' remedies that she got free when the baby was really ill and the baby sleeps unsafely with a pillow and duvet every night. (Even if this is just what she shows on insta and not everything she does she is promoting that behavior to others.) She is publicly an anti-vaxxer despite the fact she can barely spell her own name let alone have any medical knowledge to make an informed decison.

If she’s using natural remedies over medicine for her child she’s a stupid twit. I feel sorry for the child having a mother like her.

I don’t know much about her but anyone who values conspiracy theories over their child’s safety and would rather trust some full time yummy mummy blogger over a medical professional is a danger to their kids

these are the same parents that then complain about the doctors not picking up on the kid being ill. Well maybe if you taken your kid to the hospital/Gp sooner you silly cow!

 

[JGJB]

If I said this out loud in the real world I'd probably be hung BUT Old ladies singing Vera Lynn songs are not cute. It just sounds like a cat is being strangled!

 

[AlanBanan]

This leads me to my unpopular opinion- 'sex positivity' has gone too far. Nowadays I feel like unless people like getting choked while wearing a butt plug and nipple clamps they're deemed 'vanilla' or 'boring' or a 'prude'. I'll never forgive the silly bint who told me not to 'kink shame' Armie Hammer when I said he was a disgusting pervert.

If anything we could do with becoming more prudish as a society!

Omg are you talking about the weirdo in the gender discussion forum who decided to then describe the sex positions and kinks they partake in?

 

[unfinishedsentenc]

Unpopular opinion

Having a nicotine addiction should not be a valid reason to take more breaks (then a non smoker) during your shift at work.

 

[ClockworkDolly]

I don’t want to diss anyones small business as they are only trying to make a living but there is a special place in hell for anyone who has one of these on their front door. So naff. Also Christmas decorations should not be put up til December.
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Chav-central, along with balloon arches, fake flowers/plants, room signs around their house BATHE, EAT, etc.