Unpopular Opinions #25

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Oh we're back to breastfeeding aye? The OG controversial topic, together with fig rolls
 
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You also said over age 1 though so given that guidelines recommend until age 2 I do think that adds to mum shaming for those who do choose to follow the guidelines. Just my opinion.. as you can see lots of people agree with you- the point I was trying to say is it’s not unpopular to withdraw support for breastfeeding when it’s past the newborn stage. It’s a popular opinion- imo
 
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I'm probably going to be shot but I don't think BF has a massive difference on infant health in developed countries vs developing countries. It's not a magical potion. I think it's great if you do also ok if you don't Many people talk about the WHO studies but it's more geared at countries without access to clean water.
 
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Haha. I let all my children wean naturally. One at 6 years, one at four years, one at 5 years. "Extended" (and I hate that we call it that) was the norm until society said it wasn't.

To reach their own.
 
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I accidentally posted this on another thread so for anyone seeing it on the other thread and are confused about the random statement, blame it on the heat,

anyways the UO is:

Kiwi’s need to be eaten with Skin on, no other way about it.
 
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I accidentally posted this on another thread so for anyone seeing it on the other thread and are confused about the random statement, blame it on the heat,

anyways the UO is:

Kiwi’s need to be eaten with Skin on, no other way about it.
Agreed! As long as it’s washed!!
 
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I agree. I don’t think it’s taboo in the UK at all. I actually think bottle feeding mums get more hassle and judgement. Asking why they’re not breastfeeding, or asked when they stopped breastfeeding and the sheer horror on peoples faces when you say you didn’t do it at all!

People make this big deal like people are asked to leave certain establishments for breastfeeding but i think that it’s so far and few between that actually happens if at all.
 
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Breastfeeding isn’t taboo at all but some breastfeeding mums would love it to be.

I couldn’t care less how anyone feeds their baby but you don’t see parents who bottle feed constantly post pics of their kid with a bottle hanging out their mouth the way bf mums do begging for attention. Just feed your wean and fuck up
 
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i find them to be the same mums who want to martyr themselves over every aspect of parenthood or want a medal for everything they do
 
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Amen sister!

It’s such a non-issue but people like to make it into a big thing.
 
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Actually, inclusive language can exclude other minorities and put them at risk in healthcare settings. In particular, women with learning difficulties, low literacy levels and those who cannot speak English. It just increases the chances of misunderstandings and therefore I personally tend to avoid it entirely.
I wouldn’t mind using preferred language for an individual in the context of health if they specifically request it, but I don’t agree with making gender inclusive language the norm, and I will not use it to refer to myself either. I’m a woman, I don’t want to be called a ‘period haver’, ‘person who menstruates’, ‘monthly vagina bleeder’ or any other weird dehumanizing terms because it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Bruh you beat me to it!
 
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