BIB I think a lot of people are tone deaf in generalYep I agree with that. This is a general comment that doesn't apply to anyone here, more from my 'real life' experience, but sometimes people have a big downer on the NHS because of a bad experience they had, and then they slate all of the NHS and run it down at every opportunity.
While I fully understand why they may feel that way, it can sometimes be unfair. I've got an uncle who thinks nothing of doing it in front of my sister in law who's a nurse. My SIL keeps quiet, but I know she's been hurt by a few things this relative has said/implied. It's like he sees her as "the enemy" because she works for an organisation whose name is mud in his house.
I sometimes see it on local Facebook groups as well - especially about our local doctors surgery who do a good job IMO - and the ones complaining are the hypochondriacs who clog up the phone lines and don't have much wrong with them, yet seem to get an appointment at least weekly. They can't see they're part of the reason why it's not easy for others to get appointments.
So, like I say, it's not aimed at anyone here - just more me having a rant!
My aunt who is 86 and generally lovely was really whinging about people who work from home the other day especially people who work in public sector, to me who works from home (3 days a week) in the public sector.
My sister who works from home but private sector tried explaining how the lazy sods will always be lazy sods. But those who work hard, work hard regardless of where they are working and some will do more from home to "prove" they aren't lazy. But she wouldn't have any of it.
ETA she didn't seem to grasp that she knows my character and that I wouldn't waste company time but I am one if the bad guys she hates and thinks is swizzing the public