It is all on him. I have three children and their dad would throw me under a bus for each one of them. He actually told me on Sunday how much he loves me, but how he loves our daughter a million times more than me. He saw them once last summer because their mother, their only parent, didn’t know if it was the right thing to do. Those kids have no relationship with him. He’s too busy across the world rearing someone else’s kids. If he had any backbone or love for those kids he would move heaven and earth to be their dad. He didn’t. We would all love, at times, to move around the world and leave all our responsibilities behind us, but we don’t because we couldn’t imagine a world without our children in it. I’m no fan of Julie, but he’s lower than pondscum.Remember she was supposed to move with him though- it's not all on him. He only saw them once last summer because that's all he was 'allowed' to see them. They don't have a custody arrangement for regular access because he lives abroad.
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We don’t need to hear any side. we know he is in Australia, we know the 5 year olds do not recognize him, we know he is absent. We don’t need to see or hear anymore of that, as it can’t be justified. And dead right she introduced him as a ‘friend’. What should she have done? Hey kids, here’s daddy. Daddy lives in Australia with other kids, I know you don’t know him but he’s back home for the first time in almost 4 years and he’d like to see you for the afternoon. Don’t get too attached though because you’ll probably be 10 when you hear or see him again.We only hear one side and that's her side, I wouldn't be taking everything she says as gospel .. you would be nieve to believe a word from her mouth ..
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Exactly .. and introduced as a "friend" at that . Damaging those children even more with that daft carry on.
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We don’t need to hear any side. we know he is in Australia, we know the 5 year olds do not recognize him, we know he is absent. We don’t need to see or hear anymore of that, as it can’t be justified. And dead right she introduced him as a ‘friend’. What should she have done? Hey kids, here’s daddy. Daddy lives in Australia with other kids, I know you don’t know him but he’s back home for the first time in almost 4 years and he’d like to see you for the afternoon. Don’t get too attached though because you’ll probably be 10 when you hear or see him again.We only hear one side and that's her side, I wouldn't be taking everything she says as gospel .. you would be nieve to believe a word from her mouth ..
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Exactly .. and introduced as a "friend" at that . Damaging those children even more with that daft carry on.