That tit can create unhealthy relationships for the kids and cause issues and confusion with the opposite sex when they are older she needs to stop it and treat them as equalsThis notion of boys spending time with Daddy/Uncle/Grandad/male cousin whatever and the same with girls having a "girlie day" actually drives me mad. Surely just having quality time with each child is the main thing every now and again regardless of male/female. It would be just as beneficial for her to take Fionn to rugby and Erin Rose to head off with her uncle for an hour without imposing these ridiculous, old fashioned, gender notions