WAI here I come!! No dirty deletes there. At 30 or whatever age she is she should never get into those states in the 1st place and before people say oh I do or you’re judgemental, or my cat does this so why can’t Julie, I’m saying you get to a state that yes you get fucking pissed but you have a back up. Also when you have kids and are going home alone you just can’t get into that much of a state. She’s gonna be still drunk now, not able for the kids as it is so she can’t go get them, and it’s just too dangerous. She needs a good talking to as she’s binge drinking at 4 in the day ffs with twins that need her attention.